my friend and i have nothing to talk about anymore Options

[jennyjenny]

So I've been friends with this girl since February. We talked mainly everyday and hung out frequently in the summer. Since school has started, it seems as if though she's too caught up with her other friends. I'm not trying to brag about my friend, but I admit that she knows a lot of people and sometimes I get jealous. For example, if you're talking to her in school she'll most likely ditch you after 5 minutes to go talk to someone else.

I mean, she says we're really close friends, but the past couple of weeks seems to be getting boring. We have nothing to talk about anymore and everytime we're on the phone it's like all silent and weird because we can't talk about anything. We're not in any of each other's classes, either.

But I don't think she likes me that much anymore now that she has her other friends. She got kept back and I guess she didn't know anyone in 8th grade, but now that we're in high school she knows a lot of people. I get to hang out with her sometimes once a week, sometimes never. I mean, we still talk and stuff, but just casual stuff. We used to tell each other everything and we'd help each other out, but now it just seems different.

I don't want to "make new friends" because it just doesn't seem like anyone I want to be close friends with. She's been a really good friend of mine up until september and I just don't want to lose her. I mean, she's like obsessed with this Sophomore girls and they're like best friends and hang out everyday. So I guess sometimes I'm jealous that I'm not her and never will be and she's never going to talk to me like she talks to her.



So most of these replies were to make new friends?

It's hard to make new friends for me.

I've been hurt so much, since the beginning of middle school, about friends. I have a hard time trusting people now. I'm not one of those people who have a lot of close friends. Most of the people I talk to are just people who are there so I don't have to sit alone at lunch.

It's that I don't want to lose her but I wish she wanted to be friends with me as much as I want to be friends with her.

And I can't hang out with anyone else because I have no one to hang out with. Well, people I want to hang out with.

This post has been edited by Cake.: Nov 8 2005, 03:00 PM