this is really weird, i just dont get him Options

[mistaken_identit...]

well. a long time ago I started liking this guy. we aren't exactly friends or anything but we talk sometimes and he used to be prety nice to me (tho he sometimes teases me but in a nice way). we talk more on msn than we do at school, and one time on msn he asked me who i liked. so i decided that i would tell him.

i think he was shocked, because right after it he just signed off withou8t saying anything. so next time i asked him if he likes anyone, he said he likes no one. so i was like hey, i'll get over him. after that conversation i ignored him most times, and he started acting really mean..and was throwing rubbers, playing with my hair, doing whatever possible to get my attention. so i got really pissed off, even though it was hard to get over him i tried really hard to ignore him and everything.

and yesterday, my friend asked him has he ever liked me, he said yes. and shes my bestfriend so i can trust her.

why did he lie to me?? i mean if he liked me why cant he just tell me??? i have the worst timing ever

[SillyCourtney]

That's going on with me right now. He's probably just shy. It sucks, and it gets aggravating.. but at least he considers you his best friend and he likes you. Isn't that something good? Try not to stay too angry, because it won't help anything. I know, you're probably thinking, "But I like him too! Wouldn't that make it easier?" But honestly, I don't think it does, because after he tells you he likes you he'll probably be wondering what to do next. Like, should he ask you out, or wait a while, or what? I think sometimes it is easier to get rejected, because at least you can move on. And, another thing I want to point out.. maybe he didn't tell you he liked you because he didn't want to ruin the friendship you two had. I've seen friendships get ruined so many times, and it's sad. Hope that shed some light on the situation. =)