used? Options

[illushun_eyez]

alohaz!
have any of you ladiez n guyz, ever felt like you have been used or feeling used from your other? wellz, i have my really good friend feeling that she iz being used by her boyfriend. they have been going out for about 1 year and something monthz and just recently they have been going through their downz. something about being with my friend because of a bet. and they just had sex on monday. my friend did comfort him but all he did to her was yell at her and just asumming thingz. anywayz, she feelz that he iznt telling her thingz and that she iz being used for sex. any adivce to give to my friend. because i really didnt have a good adivce to give her expect that she haz to stick up for herself and dont let him think any of thiz iz her fault. wellz, got adivce? please help me i really care for my good friend all i could do with her iz cry because i felt like that before but, i dotn want her kicking any ass thatz what i did. and she doesnt deserve thiz at all.
mahaloz

[sweetlyz]

yeh .. i`ve felt used a lot by the people i actually thought were my closest friends. they tOok my kindness for granted and treated me like i never existed when they don`t need anything from me. so now, i barely talk to three of them and the worst one of them all is casted away forever! i hate him! its the third time he did it to me .. i don`t know why i keep forgiving them and falling for their empty apologies