that connection, . Options

[expoised]

have you ever gotten a weird feeling that you've "connected" to someone, particularly someone you like, without even saying a word?

there's this guy. sometimes, whenever i walk into the room, he looks up and he'd hold my gaze for a few moments then we'd both look away, and i get this weird buzzing feeling in my stomach. sometimes i'd be sitting in class, and i know his eyes are on me, so i'd look away on purpose, but i'd get this pang in my chest. it's exciting, like a chill down the spine... like something's sparking, but not lit yet.

but then, whenever we talk, the tingling sensation goes away. i'd be happy because we'd be talking, but i wouldnt be excited. sometimes i think i like him better when we're not talking to each other.

[KissMe2408]

hmm, that's really interesting that your connection with him would fade right when you guys started to talk. Maybe it might just be a physical attraction.
Usually i feel connected like that when i start to talk to a guy and get to know them, but i know what you mean though. there are just certain people that you meet and once you look at them you are connected in a way. Like you were meant to meet that person. Not only with a boyfriend relationship, but as a friend too. you can totally click as friends. It's one of those funny things in life. Kinda like that feeling when you are driving on the highway and you and the person in the car next to you, look at each at the same time. for no apparent reason. It just was natural. lol