HELP PLZ...my feelings on parents, finding out i have a bf |
 Nov 1 2005, 04:43 AM
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just recently my friend Bruce asked me out. since i wasn't sure of my feelings toward him, i asked him if i could have time to think about it. he said okay. over the past few days i thought about our friendship. i've liked him on and off and on and off so many times that i was confused, but now i realized that i really do like him and we could really have a good relationship as bf and gf. so i would tell him yes BUT i have a problem. one word: PARENTS
its not that they dont allow me to date. they have no problem about me dating. it's me with the problem. i dont want them to find out that i have a bf. this might sound corny but, the reason i dont want them to find out is because i dont want my parents to be sad that they're letting me go. u know how dads say "oh ur daddy's little girl..."? well i dont want to lose that. if i have a bf, i wont be that "my little girl" image to my dad. i know, i know, im 17 and im not a little girl anymore, but my relationship with my parents is different (in a good way). plus, they know that if i have a bf, then that means i hug, which leads to kissing, which leads to "total make-out", which leads to (waaaay later on) sex. i know they wont see me as innocent anymore. i dont want to lose that with them. so my two questions are... 1. should i tell Bruce no because of my parents? 2. can u give me advice on my parent problems? (how to solve it, is it normal?, etc.) |
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Nov 2 2005, 08:17 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
i say tell your parents that you are going out
and if they get mad it just prooves they love you but make sure you inform them it's nothing serious |
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highfashion HELP PLZ...my feelings on parents Nov 1 2005, 04:43 AM
wind&fire http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...opic=... Nov 1 2005, 04:53 AM _suzie_ go out with him. no one said u had to tell ur pare... Nov 1 2005, 11:46 AM
lilxl0ser QUOTE(_suzie_ @ Nov 1 2005, 11:46 AM)go out w... Nov 1 2005, 01:07 PM _sarcastic_ but your parents do let you go out don't they?... Nov 1 2005, 04:07 PM andromeda_90 that won't happen...i've had a bf already ... Nov 1 2005, 05:12 PM wishonthestars you should only tell your parents if you see it as... Nov 1 2005, 05:34 PM mipadi You'll always be your parents' children. Y... Nov 1 2005, 06:40 PM silver rain You will be bound to have a boyfriend and do all t... Nov 1 2005, 06:58 PM LittleLulu QUOTE(silver rain @ Nov 1 2005, 6:58 PM)You w... Nov 1 2005, 07:25 PM gr00vyswordsman QUOTE(LittleLulu @ Nov 1 2005, 8:25 PM)lol EX... Nov 2 2005, 03:37 PM resrchmnkyglr6 i don't think you should tell them...i mean...... Nov 2 2005, 12:10 AM miss-_-guitar tell ur parents that ur going out just as friends ... Nov 2 2005, 03:57 PM K!$$ QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Nov 2 2005, 4:07 AM)but y... Nov 5 2005, 11:26 PM gr00vyswordsman QUOTE(K!$$ @ Nov 6 2005, 12:26 ... Nov 8 2005, 10:09 AM HoodieObsessed awww his names Bruce, how romantic my dad's n... Nov 8 2005, 09:10 PM |
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