The Girl who hides her Face Options

[ParanoidAndroid]

When you go out of your house to go anywhere... do you put your hair down to cover up your face?

I know this girl in my school. She's just your typical goth but she's real nice. Her hair is beautifully dark black (and she hi-lights it with orange, or red, or pink) and she has brown eyes. Her skin is extremely pale from lack of going out to the sun. Her hair is about shoulder length and everytime I see her outside of her house, she would hide her face with her hair.

I can barely remember what her face looks like. She rarely shows it. When I ask her why, she doesn't answer.

After a few weeks of meeting her (she recently moved), I was invited over her house. Once there, she pulls back her hair and brushes it back to show her face. I was extremely awed cuz i just found out how pretty she looks. Damn if I can only describe it ...I was like, "Why do you always hide your face? You look so pretty." (I means seriously she f**king got made fun of for hiding her face)

Before she can answer, her mom came. Her mom was f***ing scary. She looked drunk and was in a hangover. Her eyes were bulging red and and whenever she moved, she looked like she was gonna trip. Then her mom looked at me (damn was I scared). She was like, "Who the f**k is this?" and my friend was like, "She's a friend." And her mom replied, "Well talk about shit if you want but make sure she gets her ass outta here by 4 and get your ugly ass to the bathroom and clean it. It's f**king filthy"



I was so f**king scared. I bet my friend was mad embarrased cuz she hid her face again by putting her hair down (I can't believe her mom called her ugly). Once we got into her room, she cried so f**king much I felt bad. She was like, "My mom wasn't always like this. She used to be so nice until my dad left her for someone else. Ever since then, she's been like this." Then her mom called out from downstairs, "Hey stupid ass, did you do your homework?"





First of all, she's not a stupid ass, she f**king gets A's all the time (there was never a time when I see her with any grade lower than A+).

I also went to the "filthy" bathroom and was awed to see how clean it was...JESUS CHRIST IT WAS f**king CLEAN... Then I found out how hard she tries to impress her mother. She hides her face because she thinks she's ugly, she doesn't contribute to class because she thinks she's stupid, she cleans her whole house because she thinks it's dirty, and she slits her wrists because she thinks her mother doesn't want her there.

Recently she got egged a lot in halloween and i made a promise to be for her all the time. I put my hair down in school and got made fun of. I made sure she never felt unwanted and shit.

man do you guys know a way I can like help her? She barely smiles anymore nor laughs. She cries in the mornings of school and never goes outside in the weekends. She's become my best friend and i am soooooo worried. I try so hard to tell her how much she is wanted and how her life is worth more than anyone else's. But now, she skips school. She was sent to the hospital (her slits apparently got serious), and her skin is craking from not getting any sunlight. I feel so bad for her, I really need advice on what to do...

*edit*

call child protection services. nobody should be exposed to that sort of treatment.

apparently, she's trying hard to impress her mother to proove to her she is a perfect daughter

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Wow. that is horrible.

I think you should just do anytyhing you can to help her. Stay by her side and be her friend and do whatever you can to motivate her and make her happy. Try all you can to make her realize she is beautiful and wanted and loved. Her mom should think about seeking counseling for the drinking and things.