HELP PLZ...my feelings on parents, finding out i have a bf Options

[highfashion]

just recently my friend Bruce asked me out. since i wasn't sure of my feelings toward him, i asked him if i could have time to think about it. he said okay. over the past few days i thought about our friendship. i've liked him on and off and on and off so many times that i was confused, but now i realized that i really do like him and we could really have a good relationship as bf and gf. so i would tell him yes BUT i have a problem. one word: PARENTS

its not that they dont allow me to date. they have no problem about me dating. it's me with the problem. i dont want them to find out that i have a bf. this might sound corny but, the reason i dont want them to find out is because i dont want my parents to be sad that they're letting me go. u know how dads say "oh ur daddy's little girl..."? well i dont want to lose that. if i have a bf, i wont be that "my little girl" image to my dad. i know, i know, im 17 and im not a little girl anymore, but my relationship with my parents is different (in a good way).

plus, they know that if i have a bf, then that means i hug, which leads to kissing, which leads to "total make-out", which leads to (waaaay later on) sex. i know they wont see me as innocent anymore. i dont want to lose that with them.

so my two questions are...
1. should i tell Bruce no because of my parents?
2. can u give me advice on my parent problems? (how to solve it, is it normal?, etc.)

[silver-rain]

You will be bound to have a boyfriend and do all that stuff, unless you become a nun. And, like others have said, you will always be their little girl. But, you will to grow up and might not be as innocent, but to your parents, you'll still be their little girl.
Besides, if you really like Bruce, then just go out with him and see what happens.

[LittleLulu]

You will be bound to have a boyfriend and do all that stuff, unless you become a nun. And, like others have said, you will always be their little girl. But, you will to grow up and might not be as innocent, but to your parents, you'll still be their little girl.
Besides, if you really like Bruce, then just go out with him and see what happens.

lol EXACTLY

you'll always be their little girl. they NEVER let go of that. thats for sure

your parents are cool enough to let you date. it doesn't change WHO YOU ARE as a person. so what if you make out n stuff? you're still who you are. and really nothing can change it. if its only an "image" that you'd like to portray then its really...not you, right? you are who you are and your parents love you either way.

and no dont let your parents prevent you from going out with him.

[gr00vyswordsman]

lol EXACTLY

you'll always be their little girl. they NEVER let go of that. thats for sure

your parents are cool enough to let you date. it doesn't change WHO YOU ARE as a person. so what if you make out n stuff? you're still who you are. and really nothing can change it. if its only an "image" that you'd like to portray then its really...not you, right? you are who you are and your parents love you either way.

and no dont let your parents prevent you from going out with him.

Yes, I agree with LittleLulu. And if If you choose to Date him, I wish you good like, and hey, you liked him on and off, always be friends if you guys every stop@@! Wish ya luck!
~~~gr00vyswordsman