HELP PLZ...my feelings on parents, finding out i have a bf |
HELP PLZ...my feelings on parents, finding out i have a bf |
Nov 1 2005, 04:43 AM
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just recently my friend Bruce asked me out. since i wasn't sure of my feelings toward him, i asked him if i could have time to think about it. he said okay. over the past few days i thought about our friendship. i've liked him on and off and on and off so many times that i was confused, but now i realized that i really do like him and we could really have a good relationship as bf and gf. so i would tell him yes BUT i have a problem. one word: PARENTS
its not that they dont allow me to date. they have no problem about me dating. it's me with the problem. i dont want them to find out that i have a bf. this might sound corny but, the reason i dont want them to find out is because i dont want my parents to be sad that they're letting me go. u know how dads say "oh ur daddy's little girl..."? well i dont want to lose that. if i have a bf, i wont be that "my little girl" image to my dad. i know, i know, im 17 and im not a little girl anymore, but my relationship with my parents is different (in a good way). plus, they know that if i have a bf, then that means i hug, which leads to kissing, which leads to "total make-out", which leads to (waaaay later on) sex. i know they wont see me as innocent anymore. i dont want to lose that with them. so my two questions are... 1. should i tell Bruce no because of my parents? 2. can u give me advice on my parent problems? (how to solve it, is it normal?, etc.) |
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Nov 1 2005, 05:12 PM
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
that won't happen...i've had a bf already and i'm still "daddy and mommy's little girl"
and yes it seems sad, growing up and not having the same relationship as you had with your parents...but even if you're not that cute little girl your dad thought of as a baby, you'll still be his daughter and he'll still be your father...so don't worry |
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highfashion HELP PLZ...my feelings on parents Nov 1 2005, 04:43 AM
wind&fire http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...opic=... Nov 1 2005, 04:53 AM
_suzie_ go out with him. no one said u had to tell ur pare... Nov 1 2005, 11:46 AM
lilxl0ser QUOTE(_suzie_ @ Nov 1 2005, 11:46 AM)go out w... Nov 1 2005, 01:07 PM
_sarcastic_ but your parents do let you go out don't they?... Nov 1 2005, 04:07 PM
wishonthestars you should only tell your parents if you see it as... Nov 1 2005, 05:34 PM
mipadi You'll always be your parents' children. Y... Nov 1 2005, 06:40 PM
silver rain You will be bound to have a boyfriend and do all t... Nov 1 2005, 06:58 PM
LittleLulu QUOTE(silver rain @ Nov 1 2005, 6:58 PM)You w... Nov 1 2005, 07:25 PM
gr00vyswordsman QUOTE(LittleLulu @ Nov 1 2005, 8:25 PM)lol EX... Nov 2 2005, 03:37 PM
resrchmnkyglr6 i don't think you should tell them...i mean...... Nov 2 2005, 12:10 AM
miss-_-guitar tell ur parents that ur going out just as friends ... Nov 2 2005, 03:57 PM
andromeda_90 i say tell your parents that you are going out
an... Nov 2 2005, 08:17 PM
K!$$ QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Nov 2 2005, 4:07 AM)but y... Nov 5 2005, 11:26 PM
gr00vyswordsman QUOTE(K!$$ @ Nov 6 2005, 12:26 ... Nov 8 2005, 10:09 AM
HoodieObsessed awww his names Bruce, how romantic my dad's n... Nov 8 2005, 09:10 PM![]() ![]() |