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ParanoidAndroid
post Oct 31 2005, 04:24 PM
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alright i want to know.... Does anyone here have anything to do with arranged marriage as far as being in one? If not, what do you think of it. Did your parents ever hint on it? Do you know someone who has an arranged marriage?

I recently found out my grandpa has a wife from an arranged marriage and a wife from the philippines (my grandma). I basically thought that was disgusting. And he told me he will arrange my marriage cry.gif or it's a matter of disownment. My dad said he wouldn't allow that but idk.... at times like these, i wish my grandpa would just grow old and get alzheimers,(well he's old enough to die, he's like 86 or somethin) and it's not like he ever spent time with me...i only see him once a year and all he does is drink beer.
 
 
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post Nov 1 2005, 05:10 PM
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^awww lol thanks lindsey

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My friends parents were arranged in marriage. The story of how they get together is hilarous.

Her dad would follow her mom around at school, pretty much stalking her and when her dads friends asked her mom what she thought she said she hated him and never wanted to even talk to him. Now theyre married and have like 5 kids.

I think an arranged marriage is not something good, but its someone culture. Id rather marry someone i love and have my parents disapprove than be with someone i dont love

that's a cute story biggrin.gif

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My mom said if I'm not married by the time i turn 28, she's gonna arrange a marriage for me -_-

lol that won't matter...you'll get married by then

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my best friend has a arranged marriage. She has a bf though. she is not even allowed to talk to guys *shes indian* yah but shes like in love wit her bf...I dont like him..

cry.gif yeah...that's what i'm worried about if i have to go through arranged marraige

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the idea is wrong but it can be a beautiful story...sure you may not have wanted to marry whoever but you can end up incredibly happy anyway. as long as it's not a young woman marrying a grandpa or vice versa ermm.gif

my parents had an arranged marriage. in the beginning it was awkward but my dad really cared about my mom and made her comfortable around him and etc. since then, they've been like best friends...once they even wore matching outfits pinch.gif

don't worry, i doubt that your grandpa will actually go through with the disowning thing, your parents are taking your side anyway.

aww lol your parents sound like a cute couple
 

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andromeda_90   arranged marriages   Oct 31 2005, 04:24 PM
tequila_sky   Don't worry if your dad said he doesn't ap...   Oct 31 2005, 05:40 PM
o0olaalaa   i think its rong. people should marry someone they...   Oct 31 2005, 06:05 PM
Oranite   QUOTE(o0olaalaa @ Oct 31 2005, 4:05 PM)i thin...   Nov 12 2005, 01:11 PM
_sarcastic_   ^i agree. i don't know anyone that is in an a...   Oct 31 2005, 06:58 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   My friends parents were arranged in marriage. The ...   Oct 31 2005, 07:12 PM
LittleLulu   i really think its not that bad of an idea. mostly...   Oct 31 2005, 10:14 PM
Chii   the idea is wrong but it can be a beautiful story....   Oct 31 2005, 10:22 PM
mouse_3k   my best friend has a arranged marriage. She has a ...   Oct 31 2005, 10:31 PM
miz_sunshine   My mom said if I'm not married by the time i t...   Oct 31 2005, 10:33 PM
ChibiChimomo   aww poor yen! not cool not cool at all :[ but ...   Oct 31 2005, 11:02 PM
andromeda_90   ^awww lol thanks lindsey QUOTEMy friends parents ...   Nov 1 2005, 05:10 PM
not_your_average   My parents went through an arranged marriage. Sure...   Nov 1 2005, 06:44 PM
Shortiiex   i would never do an arranged marriage...i think ev...   Nov 1 2005, 06:51 PM
KissMe2408   Man, an arranged marriage? ah...to me that's a...   Nov 2 2005, 01:38 PM
andromeda_90   QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Nov 2 2005, 1:38 PM)Man, a...   Nov 2 2005, 06:10 PM
KissMe2408   QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Nov 2 2005, 6:10 PM)OHHH...   Nov 2 2005, 07:16 PM
justdecent   Okay, so obviously, there is a lot to be said for ...   Nov 2 2005, 06:54 PM
andromeda_90   QUOTE(justdecent @ Nov 2 2005, 6:54 PM)Okay, ...   Nov 2 2005, 07:03 PM
Blue-Chan   I am not a fan of arranged marriage. Only if you a...   Nov 2 2005, 07:02 PM
inquisitive_   I don't necessarily agree with it. A person sh...   Nov 2 2005, 07:07 PM
andromeda_90   err then how come marraige was applicable too? err...   Nov 2 2005, 07:59 PM
KissMe2408   ^lol i have no idea why. Grammar and Spelling...yu...   Nov 2 2005, 08:38 PM
angel_revelation   ... your grandpa can't disown you you're...   Nov 2 2005, 09:52 PM
x_lilvietdreamer_x   reminds me of apu in the simpsons   Nov 3 2005, 04:44 PM
andromeda_90   ^oyeah! lol i remember that   Nov 4 2005, 01:52 PM
ILUVELMO2212   WOULDNT HAVING ARRANGED MARRIGES SUCK BECAUSE YOO...   Nov 5 2005, 07:03 PM
d4z3   eh. Arranged marriages can be good and bad at time...   Nov 5 2005, 07:18 PM
andromeda_90   ^thanks! but right now, I think I won't mi...   Nov 5 2005, 07:27 PM
d4z3   ^aren't you still a teenager? You still have y...   Nov 5 2005, 07:36 PM
andromeda_90   yup i just did lol   Nov 5 2005, 07:54 PM
Soleil   Due to religious beliefs it happens a lot. But som...   Nov 11 2005, 12:25 AM
sw33tii_kagome   arrange marriages r old.. ppl dun do tat anymore.....   Nov 12 2005, 12:57 PM
Szeh   ^Not nessecarily, my relatives had an arranged mar...   Nov 12 2005, 01:03 PM
WindSorcerous   Marriage should be between two people who love eac...   Nov 12 2005, 01:03 PM
mona lisa   Arranged marriages are traditional in India. Every...   Nov 12 2005, 01:21 PM
andromeda_90   QUOTE(mona lisa @ Nov 12 2005, 1:21 PM)Arrang...   Nov 12 2005, 08:57 PM
HuGzNKissEs   My cousin's parents are all for arranged marri...   Nov 12 2005, 01:55 PM


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