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post Oct 31 2005, 07:31 PM
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ok..more bf problems but this time it's scaring me

what happens if you find out that your bf looks at porn but he claims he doesn't?
how would you react, or ask him

my bf does, like i saw his xanga subscriptions(i was looking for my friend's site cause i forgot what it was) i clicked on a few and they turned out to be like p*rn-ish pics..

i want to ask him about it but don't know how to bring it up
 
 
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post Nov 1 2005, 11:33 AM
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Actually porn addictions (assuming he has one) have been known to ruin relationships, especially if the partners is in denial so it is kind of a big deal. I really only see it as a problem if it stands in the way of the relationship. Like he is watching porn most of the day and isnt productive in doing anything else or he'd rather watch is porn that spend with you (some porn addictions have gone that far). Pretty much he lives, breathes, sleep porn. Most guys are casual porn watchers and dont like letting their girlfriends on that they watch it because a lot of females find porn offensive. And if the latter is the case, then yes, of course he'll deny it. There are signs of porn addictions you can look for in your partner, just google for some more information if you think its the case. I kind of doubt it may be an actual addiction but the possiblity still exists.
 

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_sarcastic_   what happens if   Oct 31 2005, 07:31 PM
EXPLO5ION   Well, its normal for a guy to look at porn. If he ...   Oct 31 2005, 07:57 PM
_sarcastic_   yeah i know guys look at porn, i can accept that, ...   Oct 31 2005, 08:31 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   Maybe thats from when he did look at porn and hes ...   Oct 31 2005, 08:34 PM
LittleLulu   well maybe he doesn't know that ur okay with h...   Oct 31 2005, 09:43 PM
ChibiChimomo   yeah if he really is your boyfriend then he wouldn...   Oct 31 2005, 11:06 PM
_sarcastic_   i guess you guys are right, but he has lied to me ...   Nov 1 2005, 06:21 AM
mipadi   I highly doubt he'd admit to looking at porn, ...   Nov 1 2005, 10:14 AM
mouse_3k   its normal, hell I look @ them and my BFgets mad a...   Nov 1 2005, 11:32 AM
mzkandi   Actually porn addictions (assuming he has one) hav...   Nov 1 2005, 11:33 AM
KissMe2408   egh, personally i hate guys that look at porn. (so...   Nov 1 2005, 11:56 AM
_sarcastic_   QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Nov 1 2005, 11:56 AM)egh, ...   Nov 1 2005, 04:04 PM
EmmalieV   Guys who look at porn , its normal even I ( a fema...   Nov 1 2005, 06:25 PM
aznxdreamer   just go: HAH, YOU LOOK AT PORN!   Nov 1 2005, 08:00 PM
Shortiiex   it's just porn it's like asking do you mat...   Nov 1 2005, 09:35 PM
K!$$   QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Nov 1 2005, 11:56 PM)egh, ...   Nov 15 2005, 05:56 AM
celticsluvr   learn to look past that; if he really liked you .....   Nov 15 2005, 09:27 PM
yanners   it's just porn. he probably just doesn't ...   Nov 16 2005, 05:11 AM
Elvis_IzBack   mabe he didnt want to hurt your feelings and he wa...   Nov 16 2005, 02:59 PM
Kneuklid Romance   ....if I were a girl I'd be very upset if my B...   Nov 16 2005, 03:05 PM
yourfriendsteph   i dont think i'd be upset...i can understand i...   Nov 16 2005, 03:46 PM
lilxl0ser   hahaha its normal for guys to look at porn..but if...   Nov 16 2005, 03:54 PM
mzbbc   well all guys look at porn occasionally. it's ...   Nov 16 2005, 05:41 PM
andromeda_90   I don't have a problem with people looking at ...   Nov 16 2005, 08:16 PM


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