breaking up, how do I tell him? |
 Oct 29 2005, 12:09 AM
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My bf's the really shy, sweet type... but recently it seems he's just a little to... goody-goody for lack of a better term... for me. So I've been thinking about breaking up with him for the past few weeks (we've been going out for 2 and a half months) but I think that I should probly have a better reason than that to break up. I don't want to hurt him. Our relationship is finally starting to be closer to what I would want it to be... but I don't like him as much as I did at the start... and I get the impression that he likes me more than I like him... it's also hard 'cause we go to different schools and that makes it harder to see each other... but I still can meet him a few times a week.
and then to make things more complicated, there's this guy at my school that i like... and he likes me too... we went to the football game together earlier tonight... and we sorta made out. I know, I'm a slut to have cheated on my boyfriend... but I like him a lot more than my boyfriend... now I'm trying to figure out how to break up with my bf... should I tell him about the new guy? or should I just leave it at telling him that I just don't feel the same way anymore? he's my first bf so I'm new to the whole breaking up thing... any help on what to say, when or where? |
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Oct 29 2005, 06:18 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols well if i was you i would tell him that you really don't feel the same way towards him anymore and that you're into someone else. (im the type of person that do not like lying to people) tell him that you really don't want to continue lying to him by staying with him and you would really feel better if you guys were no longer together. make sure you tell him you want him to be happy and that in order for him to be happy he doesn't need to be in a false relationship and that he needs to find someone thats REALLY into him.
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andromeda_90 um best way is:
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