Guys who aren't really my type? Options

[jennyjenny]

I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend before. I've never been kissed before either, and my friends think it's sort of weird. I do too. The thing is, I would rather be friends with the guy first. But the guys at my school are jerks.

I guess the thing is, the guys that I have as friends aren't really my type and I don't really see myself going out with them. But the guys who are my type, I know I have no chance and I don't want to get rejected.

Anyone else feel this way?

[eccentricity__]

I'm almost 14, and never had a boyfriend or kissed. It really isn't such a big deal, unless you want to go strutting around about it or something, but no one really cares. I've never had a friend who ditched me or people who thought I was a weird loser or something for not having a bf/been kissed before, although I know most people already have.

It'll happen eventually...don't mope over it. And if you seriously want to be kissed, go ask some guy out >_>

Also, about being friends with guys first >> I usually don't spend much time thinking about who I like and stuff, and I'm not much of the type of person who would fall for someone for their looks. I'm more of a personality person. So what happens usually is that I start developing feelings for the guys I become good friends with =/ eh. Which is just annoying sometimes. Because I'd prefer them as friends.