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Why Do They Act DIFFERENT!?, when i tell them....
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post Oct 28 2005, 10:57 AM
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when i tell people im BI... ? is this innapropriate im sorry i just want to know what goes through peoples heads
 
 
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KissMe2408
post Oct 28 2005, 12:00 PM
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Well, it matters how, when, and for what reason you are telling them this. Are they asking? Or are you just kinda telling them for the hek of it? I mean there is a time and place for everything.
But if they ask and you tell them, I don't think it's innapropriate. You shouldn't have to lie about it. But like i said, there is a time and place for everything. At times it might be innapropriate, so just choose the people you tell and when wisely. I dunno if that made sense but yah happy.gif

By the way, i think i'm going to move this to relationships.
It would get more feedback there, thanks :)

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post Oct 28 2005, 06:02 PM
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QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Oct 28 2005, 12:00 PM)
Well, it matters how, when, and for what reason you are telling them this. Are they asking? Or are you just kinda telling them for the hek of it? I mean there is a time and place for everything.
But if they ask and you tell them, I don't think it's innapropriate.  You shouldn't have to lie about it. But like i said, there is a time and place for everything. At times it might be innapropriate, so just choose the people you tell and when wisely. I dunno if that made sense but yah  happy.gif
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Agreed. I have friends that are bi. One of them told us when the time was appropriate... the other two told us when the time just wasn't right and for a little while we acted kind of weird around them. Why? For one.. we thought they were just imitating the other girl... and two.. well, it was just that it was those girls.. you would kind of have to know them to get that one. I really don't know, we all thought they were doing it to be "cool" because they often do stuff like that. I'm not saying you're bi because you want to look "cool," I'm just explaining my reasoning behind acting weird around those other two girls.

But, I completely agree that there is a time and place for telling people things like that.
 

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