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 Oct 28 2005, 06:55 AM
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what do you do when the person you have been seeing for a while tells you that you ruined their life...i dont see how thats possible since you have more steps in life then the person you are dating...but the words all hurt the same....what do you do??
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Oct 28 2005, 10:03 AM
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okay...um...weve dated for a wile...we fight all the time...but we are fighters and i think we always will be....so right there was a bad connection.....we both dont know why we are dating...but as soon as one of us claims fin..we try and take it back.....i am more of the liberal were as he wants to be a dictaror...for instance: if someone comes up to me and comments my shirt i say thank you and think of it as a friendly neighboring jesture...where as he shall look upon it as flirting on an unbelieveable level..being my fault of course.........but in this same action if it were him with the nice shirt and i being jealous, he would become mad at me because its not his fault.......so what i would normally be fine with, i pretend to be angered by him talking to other people and such..i placed restrictions on him...the same that he placed on me though....he would become upset and then id ask him how he felt (if the child is biting you, bite them back)...
i think all in all the reason why we are dating is because we keep each other in touch with reality............yesterday he had the day off from work...he also told me that he had to be in bed by nine so that he wouldnt be tired (very confusing since he had the day off but whatever) we had gotten into a fight and it lasted after nine....thats when he told me that i ruin his life and job.....he still has the job.............................................words sting a little too much sometimes.... ugh im rambling...sorry... |
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euroxbaby what do you do Oct 28 2005, 06:55 AM
Lightner usually these choice of words are said because of ... Oct 28 2005, 09:40 AM K!$$ No matter how long the relationship or how sweet t... Oct 28 2005, 10:51 AM swtcherriipie seriously , id die... =( Oct 28 2005, 11:27 AM mipadi It doesn't seem to be a healthy relationship a... Oct 28 2005, 11:30 AM silver rain Yeah, I don't think it's a healthy relatio... Oct 28 2005, 06:53 PM _sarcastic_ yeah you'd probably should get out of the rela... Oct 28 2005, 07:26 PM iNyCxShoRT Ouch that's very harsh he probably was so ang... Oct 28 2005, 10:39 PM aera get out of that relationship. he doesnt seem to tr... Oct 28 2005, 10:58 PM
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