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 Oct 25 2005, 10:27 PM
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me and my gf broke up a few weeks ago. it kinda sucked. now i am wondering why i even liked her. she acted so cold to me when we broke up. then she tells me shes not ready for a relationship because shes "fickle" and "not mature enough". then she goes off and asks her old crush to a dance and he says yes. i just read on her xanga that she said "love you" to him. we had always talked about how we would never throw that word around carelessly. she claims theyre "just friends" but i think thats bs. i am so pissed off at her right now.
are these feelings normal? i thought i was over her, yet this still made my heart fall into my stomach when she says "love you =)" to another guy. meh. someone help. |
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Oct 27 2005, 01:23 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
Normal? One word.
YES. Her feelings are of that of a typical lost emotional teenage girl. After your breakup, she's FOR SURE on the rebound and looking for some comfort somewhere else so..saying and abusing the words "Love you" is definitely an expoitation to the concept. Also having someone going back to their "past" is nothing new either. Again the comfort zone. Girls have a tendancy to NOT like being alone...so doing foolish things to employ that shouldn't come as a new thing. So you're asking all of the right questions...and something to learn from as well. Just to get a little piece of how the female mind works... ...her feelings are normal...as are yours. Your feelings are definitely normal. Breakups are tough-cookies to comprehend. Asking questions is perfectly normal behavior after a breakup. After all, the breakup ends...you're always left with one more question... "Where do I go from here?" You'll find that over 90% of the teenage female population is just that ; not ready for a relationship and not very mature in that aspect either no matter how strong or outspoken they may seem on the outside ; but on the other hand, they're a very sensitive and fickle soul on the inside. I honestly wouldn't allow my daughter or son to date at a mid / early teenage age because the age we're in, getting a good career is going to be slim to none. But I think you have much brighter and better things to look forward to rather than a silly girl. Girls will always be there...good life / career opportunities for you won't always be there. LHHRS Kevyn @-)--------- |
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lexaa621 ex gf Oct 25 2005, 10:27 PM
hulagurlie413 i think that's totally normal to feel that way... Oct 25 2005, 10:35 PM
o0olaalaa QUOTE(hulagurlie413 @ Oct 25 2005, 11:35 PM)i... Oct 29 2005, 03:47 PM K!$$ Totally agree with ^. Ignore her, she's not w... Oct 26 2005, 03:32 AM _sarcastic_ yes it is normal to feel like that. you should be ... Oct 26 2005, 05:16 AM broken_lance ^ thats oh so true
and definately not worth your ... Oct 26 2005, 06:47 AM ChEeR A HOliC Xo No matter what, you will always have feelings for ... Oct 26 2005, 10:31 AM mouse_3k forget her, shes naive and stupid. let her be. Oct 26 2005, 10:38 AM lexaa621 thanks everyone.
i was wondering... is revenge a ... Oct 26 2005, 06:19 PM Kristinaa QUOTE(lexaa621 @ Oct 26 2005, 6:19 PM)thanks ... Oct 26 2005, 07:48 PM iNyCxShoRT I agree with them, she is a female dog -.- She pro... Oct 26 2005, 07:35 PM lilxl0ser lols awwhs its soo normal to feel that way...haha ... Oct 26 2005, 07:55 PM lexaa621 haha yeah my plan is to flirt like crazy with othe... Oct 26 2005, 08:00 PM Kristinaa QUOTE(lexaa621 @ Oct 26 2005, 8:00 PM)haha ye... Oct 26 2005, 08:01 PM miz_sunshine QUOTE(lexaa621 @ Oct 26 2005, 6:00 PM)haha ye... Oct 30 2005, 11:22 AM Ilaem Karama will defiantely get her
I guarentee that w... Oct 26 2005, 09:51 PM lexaa621 ^ karama?
anyways, i'm pretty sure she still ... Oct 26 2005, 11:32 PM sadolakced acid go out with her best friend. that's always fu... Oct 27 2005, 01:13 AM lexaa621 would it be best to just stop talking to her?
she ... Oct 28 2005, 11:16 PM toodlepops. Yeah, avoid her. There's nothing between the t... Oct 28 2005, 11:21 PM sabbyrina QUOTEwould it be best to just stop talking to her?... Oct 29 2005, 12:51 PM swtcherriipie =S omg im such a wuss i would cry. Oct 29 2005, 01:00 PM xObAbYeGuRLxO like they all said, its normal.
hope yu feel bette... Nov 4 2005, 01:48 PM alannajean forget about her; she's not worth your time. Nov 4 2005, 03:36 PM omg_melface kick her ass. :x Nov 4 2005, 04:07 PM |
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