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are you looking or waiting?
jennyjenny
post Oct 25 2005, 06:09 PM
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so my friend the other day got dumped by this girl.
and he was like "jenny, you shouldn't look-- you should wait."

so do you believe in waiting for that guy/girl to come to you,
or do you look?
 
 
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*mzkandi*
post Oct 25 2005, 06:30 PM
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I was reading something about dating myths and one of them pertained to people just waiting for the right person to come along. Well while your waiting for the right one , that special someone could be passing you by. Alot people my age (I'm 21), well at least some of my girlfriends, are looking for the one and I see nothing wrong with actively looking for a potential mate (sounds like the Discovery Channel). It becomes a problem with its like your life long quest. Like I have a friend that is engaged to this guy she doesnt love and its only with him for the sake of companionship . She doesnt like the thought being a single female so desperately looks for guys to leach off of. Its pathetic because I know many single females, and while some may not be content with single-dom, they keep a watchful eye for the right person and not just settling for something because its there. This turned out longer than I expected........
 

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Cake.   are you looking or waiting?   Oct 25 2005, 06:09 PM
mzkandi   I was reading something about dating myths and one...   Oct 25 2005, 06:30 PM
o0olaalaa   both? like wait for someone you truly love and als...   Oct 25 2005, 06:52 PM
cfaye3char   I am just waiting for some one to come along, I go...   Oct 25 2005, 06:57 PM
jooleeah   i've been waiting for forever. it's not wo...   Oct 25 2005, 07:01 PM
Kristinaa   As a teenager, I find it quite silly to be looking...   Oct 25 2005, 07:01 PM
silver rain   Well, with my current relationship, I wasn't l...   Oct 25 2005, 07:38 PM
iNyCxShoRT   I usually just wait. And then a boy catches my att...   Oct 25 2005, 08:40 PM
Shortiiex   i look for who i like..then i wait for them to com...   Oct 25 2005, 09:41 PM
ecargnmyst   im waiting..wow..this topic...just..occured to me....   Oct 25 2005, 10:06 PM
peggysturr   I wait for the one I am looking for.   Oct 25 2005, 11:00 PM
K!$$   QUOTE(peggysturr @ Oct 26 2005, 11:00 AM)I wa...   Oct 26 2005, 05:44 AM
anqie   Well... both? I'm not looking as much as i...   Oct 25 2005, 11:03 PM
Cwlplover   I'm kinda doing both...I'm not so much loo...   Oct 26 2005, 05:49 AM
xangelkissesx   I can wait but I do look aswell. Hopefully they...   Oct 26 2005, 07:33 PM
lilxl0ser   im always waiting for that SPECIAL guy to come to ...   Oct 26 2005, 08:02 PM
mipadi   Romance is a combination of both. You can't ma...   Oct 26 2005, 11:21 PM
ChEeR A HOliC Xo   Depends if you know who you want, then wait. But y...   Oct 27 2005, 03:00 PM
dorktastic   I just sort of look for guys who fit the types of ...   Oct 27 2005, 04:34 PM
SimplicityGirl   I don't believe in the type of looking where t...   Oct 27 2005, 10:27 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   I look and wait alternately. Most of the time i f...   Oct 28 2005, 12:30 AM
evanbunnell   Looking in all the wrong places.   Oct 28 2005, 03:13 AM


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