hes older, in a different country, we met on a.., plane, and i like him =_=". so bizzare Options

[LittleLulu]

this is probably the most bizzare story of my life.

the summer of 05' was the first time i flew on an airplane by myself. it was a long, international flight. This guy tapped me on the shoulder in the beggining of the flight and asked to borrow the book i was reading. I "grilled him for 3 minutes on his life history" as he put it, before lending him the book. Just a while later i was having problems with the form filling and at the same time he was over on "my side" of the plane getting something from his lugguage. He ended up helping me and sat beside me for the rest of the flight. He was funny, and sincere, smart, yet well dressed. The perfect guy in my opinion.

I was so fascinated with him. He's 18, lives in BC like me, that is, until he moved because HE ATTENDS AN IVY LEAGUE SCHOOL IN the U.S!!! (namingly Harvard.)

we exchanged emails and started talking online. I havent seen him since, since hes in America attending college. coincidently, him and his girlfriend of 2 years broke up just 2 days after me and my bf of over 6 months had broken up.

he's said things like "ur cute when ur spiteful", and " they're running a play here, called 'Lulu'. there are posters everywhere. Everytime i see a poster i think of you" and " i love how ur screenname says 'delicious irony', because since you burnt your tongue, you cant taste anythin delicious!!"

Hes coming to my town during winter break. We already agreed to see each other while hes over here. The problem is, i dont know if i should tell him or not. If we start a long distance relationship i'd only get to see hima bout 2 times a year. and its going to be 2.5 years before i graduate to college. And if something goes wrong before that then i wont get his help reguarding applying for college. which i REALLY would like his help with.

so guys, help me XD

[ParanoidAndroid]

If you survived a long distance friendship, you can most likely survive a long distance relationship

[Kneuklid Romance]

If you survived a long distance friendship, you can most likely survive a long distance relationship

hmmmmm I kinda beg to differ from what I've experienced

.....having a friendship and relationship are very different things...with friendship there's no paranoia and trust issues when you're away. It's nice and innocent but in relationships you'll always be missing and questioning things especially since you don't see the person very often, and soon you'll run into a guy that fascinates you even more and that is close to you distance wise...then this long distance relationship that seemed to go strong for the first two weeks seems to dissapate.

But that's my experience from my friends...things could be different.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)-------

[LittleLulu]

hmmmmm I kinda beg to differ from what I've experienced

.....having a friendship and relationship are very different things...with friendship there's no paranoia and trust issues when you're away. It's nice and innocent but in relationships you'll always be missing and questioning things especially since you don't see the person very often, and soon you'll run into a guy that fascinates you even more and that is close to you distance wise...then this long distance relationship that seemed to go strong for the first two weeks seems to dissapate.

But that's my experience from my friends...things could be different.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)-------

hmm i seem to agree on the fact that a frienship and a relationship are very different things. and i think it has to deal with biological reasons. but thats another thing

although i really dont know how on earth i'd meet someone more interesting as him. there arent any new students at my school this year. and its not like im going to be getting on a plane anytime soon if i could find someone as intelligent, witty, charming, charasmatic, physically fit, curtious and open as him, who lives near me then i wouldn't waste my time thinking about him now would i?

it occured to me the other day, that this guy has been emotionally there for me within the past few months MORE than my ex was there for me for probably our whole relationship. Its such a disturbing thought....