hes older, in a different country, we met on a.., plane, and i like him =_=". so bizzare Options

[LittleLulu]

this is probably the most bizzare story of my life.

the summer of 05' was the first time i flew on an airplane by myself. it was a long, international flight. This guy tapped me on the shoulder in the beggining of the flight and asked to borrow the book i was reading. I "grilled him for 3 minutes on his life history" as he put it, before lending him the book. Just a while later i was having problems with the form filling and at the same time he was over on "my side" of the plane getting something from his lugguage. He ended up helping me and sat beside me for the rest of the flight. He was funny, and sincere, smart, yet well dressed. The perfect guy in my opinion.

I was so fascinated with him. He's 18, lives in BC like me, that is, until he moved because HE ATTENDS AN IVY LEAGUE SCHOOL IN the U.S!!! (namingly Harvard.)

we exchanged emails and started talking online. I havent seen him since, since hes in America attending college. coincidently, him and his girlfriend of 2 years broke up just 2 days after me and my bf of over 6 months had broken up.

he's said things like "ur cute when ur spiteful", and " they're running a play here, called 'Lulu'. there are posters everywhere. Everytime i see a poster i think of you" and " i love how ur screenname says 'delicious irony', because since you burnt your tongue, you cant taste anythin delicious!!"

Hes coming to my town during winter break. We already agreed to see each other while hes over here. The problem is, i dont know if i should tell him or not. If we start a long distance relationship i'd only get to see hima bout 2 times a year. and its going to be 2.5 years before i graduate to college. And if something goes wrong before that then i wont get his help reguarding applying for college. which i REALLY would like his help with.

so guys, help me XD

[sadolakced acid]

hold off on it till you've known him for at least a year.

you don't know how he feels about it.

it would be rather embarresing if he said "oh. sorry, but i think of you as a sister."

[LittleLulu]

hold off on it till you've known him for at least a year.

you don't know how he feels about it.

it would be rather embarresing if he said "oh.  sorry, but i think of you as a sister."

you see thats what im afraid of. if i work up the courage to make the big confession to him about my UNDYING LOVE (ok maybe not that dramatic) but there IS still the dear of being rejected

my last relationship started by me gettinga mutual friend to tell the guy i like that i like him...and it lasted about 6 months and 20 days. but i want it to LAST...longer..im talking more like a few years.