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post Oct 23 2005, 01:56 PM
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What do you do when you really like your boyfriend but your scarred to get to get to close (like fall in love) because your scarred of getting hurt.........I think that im starting to fall in love with my boyfriend and i think he feels the same way well thats what my friends say so what should I do?
 
 
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post Oct 23 2005, 02:04 PM
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...Your friends say?

What do you say dear? Don't go by what your friends say, they dont know how you feel or how he feels. Listen to your heart and soul...not other people...

...in relationships you'll find that other people and outside influences tend to break more than mend.

But what I would do...I would have a nice atmosphere and a relatively quiet one...(perhaps a nice dinner) and just talk about your future being together. You can mention love and your feelings, and just ask questions and talk.

Get a conversation started about your relationship...then

Perhaps ask him light and simple questions like,

"What if I'm afraid to fall in love?"

"What does love mean to you?"

"What does committment mean to you?"

"What would it do to us in the long term?"

Those are just relative questions...you have to dig into his heart and see what / how he feels about that subject. Love is too complicated to be left in the dark...

...and if / should you ever get hurt, you will suffer immensely but it will also make you very strong inside and will answer your questions you have deep down.

^______^.

Hang in there, the road to true love is a very interesting one...believe me. But it is well worth it.

Good luck.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)--------
 

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socialbutterfly23   what do you do   Oct 23 2005, 01:56 PM
Kneuklid Romance   ...Your friends say? What do you say dear? Don...   Oct 23 2005, 02:04 PM
Jakelvl100   depending on your age you should show your imotion...   Oct 23 2005, 02:04 PM
LittleLulu   ok so i've let my heart out to this guy. and i...   Oct 23 2005, 05:44 PM
xxamandajanexx   as martina mcbride would say... love without holdi...   Oct 23 2005, 07:30 PM
_sarcastic_   most ppl will get hurt at least once. don't be...   Oct 24 2005, 06:12 AM
mouse_3k   I went through that when I girst started going out...   Oct 24 2005, 10:31 AM
broken_lance   ^ wow your kucky to have a bf like that well you...   Oct 24 2005, 10:51 AM
xFaith   Just let him in your heart ;).. if you get hurt, w...   Oct 24 2005, 10:55 AM
K!$$   ^ Agreed. Better to have loved and lost than to n...   Oct 24 2005, 11:05 AM
mipadi   I think that people tend to worry too much about l...   Oct 24 2005, 11:07 AM
xnofearx   I would go emo and start doing drugs and cutting m...   Oct 24 2005, 12:03 PM
iNyCxShoRT   Like the quote says, "Your eyes must do some ...   Oct 25 2005, 08:42 PM
c4rL4   LET Y0UR feelings out.. just dont give your everyt...   Oct 26 2005, 09:44 PM
Shortiiex   if you heart gets broken just let it get broken..i...   Oct 26 2005, 10:35 PM
Genuine_Essence   Follow your heart   Oct 29 2005, 07:57 PM
swtcherriipie   thats inda happening to me now.. =\   Oct 31 2005, 04:42 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   Let what happens happen. You cant HELP falling in ...   Oct 31 2005, 07:17 PM
socialbutterfly23   Thanks everyone so much me and my bf have been goi...   Nov 4 2005, 10:42 PM
miss-_-guitar   ine been hurt by love before. or what i thought wa...   Nov 5 2005, 04:50 PM


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