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![]() Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 270,691 ![]() |
What do you do when you really like your boyfriend but your scarred to get to get to close (like fall in love) because your scarred of getting hurt.........I think that im starting to fall in love with my boyfriend and i think he feels the same way well thats what my friends say so what should I do?
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![]() Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 ![]() |
...Your friends say?
What do you say dear? Don't go by what your friends say, they dont know how you feel or how he feels. Listen to your heart and soul...not other people... ...in relationships you'll find that other people and outside influences tend to break more than mend. But what I would do...I would have a nice atmosphere and a relatively quiet one...(perhaps a nice dinner) and just talk about your future being together. You can mention love and your feelings, and just ask questions and talk. Get a conversation started about your relationship...then Perhaps ask him light and simple questions like, "What if I'm afraid to fall in love?" "What does love mean to you?" "What does committment mean to you?" "What would it do to us in the long term?" Those are just relative questions...you have to dig into his heart and see what / how he feels about that subject. Love is too complicated to be left in the dark... ...and if / should you ever get hurt, you will suffer immensely but it will also make you very strong inside and will answer your questions you have deep down. ^______^. Hang in there, the road to true love is a very interesting one...believe me. But it is well worth it. Good luck. LHHRS Kevyn @-)-------- |
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