so there's this girl who's giving me problems... Options

[hulagurlie413]

PLEASE READ AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK:

ok so there's this girl named brittney who i've known for a few years now since high school and we (were) pretty much good friends. she works @ vons next to my high school with my bf who's been working there for probably a little over a month. at first, i was like "oh cool you're working with my friend" and everything, BUT recently like starting this past weekend, she's been texting him and calling him a lot lately. he never calls or texts he back, by the way.

i mess around with his phone sometimes and he does the same with mine, as well. as i was doing so, i found a few of her texts and saw that she had been calling him late at night like around 10:30-11-ish. i'm not upset with him because i trust him and believe me, he has much better taste in girls. i'll show you what i mean in a second with her picture, but anyway, her texts would contain messages like "hey what's up? what are your plans for 2nite?" and one (from last night) "hey call me when you're done talking with tiff". as for the first text, it's like why? what's it to you? he says he would never hang out with her out of like their work hours cuz he just doesn't care.

i confronted her about it last night on aim and pretty much let her know that i was on to her. i asked her why she was constantly texting and emailing my bf and her excuse was " i wanted to see how he was feeling"

the story behind that is that last sunday he called in sick because he wasn't feeling well.

anyway, so i'm like oh ok, well that's understandable, BUT he had already told her that he was feeling much better. so then i asked her why she was always asking what his plans were because she was like ALWAYS asking and it just made me kinda of suspicious of her, ya know? again, she used the "i just wanted to see how he was feeling" excuse and it's like hellloooo...you already told me that before. it's like she thinks i'm dumb enough to believe that excuse (for the second time). the first time, i totally understood and was like oh ok how nice, but now it's just getting ridiculous.

i talked to some friends who either know her or are friends with her, as well and they think that she's being really annoying and dumb.

i say this because, here's the thing: my bf and i have been together for a long time, in fact, today is our 1 year and 2 months anniversary. so it's pretty obvious that we're serious about each other. we even talk about "our future" together sometimes, so that's a dead giveaway.

she knows how long we've been together and all that stuff too, yet she keeps on "attempting" to "steal" him from me. i'm just really pissed cuz i already told her pretty much how i felt and she obviously doesn't care and is obviously not a good friend. i think that she's basically a backstabbing bitch. for the record, i have never done anything to her, but be a good friend. true story.

anyway, i'm running out of ideas because i don't know what else to say to make it clear to her that she should stop doing what she's doing. a lot of people think that i should just beat her in the face for being so dumb, but i really don't like to resolve things with violence; i just use communication to try to get through ppl.


so what do u think?


oh and here's my "competition"...

[hulagurlie413]

SO HERE'S THE UPDATE SINCE SOMEONE ON HERE ASKED ME TO KEEP U GUYS UPDATED...

So pretty much what happened was that my bf told me today that yesterday @ work, he was told by his friends adam and stacey (who work @ a different department @ vons) that Brittney (<--- the "so-called" friend) secretly admitted to them that she wanted him. i was like "dude who totally called that shit???" and he was like totally surprised cuz he didn't think that she thought of him in that way. he was pretty much grossed out though.

anyway, i gave her a text (since she was working and mostly likely wouldn't pick up the phone) and told her basically to just stay away from my bf and that we both know that she's been after him. she text-ed me saying that she had no idea what i was talking about, but of course we didn't believe her because 2 of her friends told my bf the truth.

so my bf and i are like ok w/e she's retarded and then we left for the movies to go watch "Doom". probably around 7:45 P.M. we get back to his house and i get a restricted phone call on my cell, but i ignored it cuz i don't usually pick up calls from ppl i don't know. well i got a voicemail and it turned out to be Brittney's friend who works with her @ vons named Nicole. Nicole was just going off and saying stuff like, "listen you stupid asian bitch, we call your bf and we don't give a f**k cuz you're a crazy bitch. you want to start shit, bring it you stupid whore!"

i'm like um ok...this was between Brittney and me and i never cursed at her or called her names, i just confronted her about the situation like how i told you guys. she's obviously too chicken shit to talk to me about it, i guess since she had her friend call and cuss me out for her.


i think it's clear to say who the mature one was in this situation.

i'm thinking that maybe she's the "crazy bitch" and not me, but who knows? i could be wrong...

basically though, he doesn't work there anymore and doesn't want to associate with those ppl.

i'll let u know if she continues this madness....lol