it's always the guys fault!, or is it? |
 Oct 22 2005, 12:40 AM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate  Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959  |
usually on reality tv and of course on the MAURY show (who's yo baby's daddy?) they say the guy gets the girl pregnant, leaves her, then goes to the next girl. i dont know why tv makes it seem that way. its the girls fault too, if she gets hersekf pregnant.
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Oct 22 2005, 12:46 AM
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Er, well, it's usually a guy's fault because well, if the woman's going on the show it means that she's keeping the baby. It's ALL her responsibility, whereas the guy goes off with some other woman and is totally irresponsible for something he also created. Very, very rarely does this happen vice versa.
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Oct 22 2005, 10:36 AM
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QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Oct 22 2005, 12:46 AM) Er, well, it's usually a guy's fault because well, if the woman's going on the show it means that she's keeping the baby. It's ALL her responsibility, whereas the guy goes off with some other woman and is totally irresponsible for something he also created. Very, very rarely does this happen vice versa. she was the one who agreed to get knocked up though. you have to think of it this way. sometimes they have to test up to 3 guys to see who the dad is... that means the guy isnt the only one that moves on.
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Oct 22 2005, 07:16 PM
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in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
QUOTE(incoherent @ Oct 22 2005, 8:36 AM) she was the one who agreed to get knocked up though. you have to think of it this way. sometimes they have to test up to 3 guys to see who the dad is... that means the guy isnt the only one that moves on. I think you misunderstood me. Never did I mean that the woman has no responsibility for the baby, it's just that she is obligated to take care of it, and therefore her part of the responsibility is taken care of. The man, on the other hand, has equal responsibility for his child, but isn't helping out at all. So...to put it more plainly: BOTH parents have EQUAL responsibility The shows make it seem like it's the guy's fault because he has NOT taken this responsiblity, whereas the woman HAS. If it was the other way around, say, the man taking care of the baby and the woman running off, I'm positive the talk shows would put the woman at fault. |
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jEllyBeaNs it's always the guys fault! Oct 22 2005, 12:40 AM
zoe_loves_you you are right.... but its just stuck in eveyone... Oct 22 2005, 12:47 AM Lightner well i can see how it would be stupid because if u... Oct 22 2005, 03:56 PM cLinT_wEStw0oD It is the girls fault she didn't take pills/ma... Oct 22 2005, 06:19 PM Cake. I bet this is going to become a debate.
Well it... Oct 22 2005, 07:10 PM RiC3xBoy Well in Maury's Show, its USUALLY the man that... Oct 23 2005, 01:05 PM _sarcastic_ yeah of course it's partly the girl's faul... Oct 24 2005, 05:12 PM andromeda_90 yeah, it's true..she agreed to get knocked up
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