big lips. its a problem Options

[left_alone]

I have big lips. A bit bigger than Angelina Jolie's. And I'm white.
So, people see this as an oppportunity to make fun of me. I hate my lips.
My mom says that people would pay big for my kind of lips, but people in my school don't accept it. Everytime I talk to someone, and the subject is around lips, I tend to suck them in a bit, or alter their appearence somehow. I've been teased about them since I was in 6th grade and now its an insecurity of mine.

Plus, they are so large, that when I get older, people may think I had injections and may look at me like some whore because I'm white; and white girls almost ALWAYS have thin lips.

My mother said if I wanted to 'downsize' their look I should use lip liner and lipstick; but infact I HATE lipliner and I HATE lipstick. There are just disgusting to me.

Any helpful tips?

edit// I'm not being racist. I'm saying that I've observed alot of other caucasion (sp?) girls and they either have tiny lips or just a bit full. I've observed darker people and they almost always have thick lips.

[mistakenxidentit...]

i, myself, have big lips and i, too, got made fun of. but like your mom said, people pay big bucks for them. i let that be what diminished my insecurity about my lips. i use them to my advantage now and flaunt them. i've had many compliments about my lips and the guys seem to dig 'em, so i don't mind them anymore. you shouldn't worry about what everyone says. you are who you are and nothing can or should change that. i used to have many, many insecurities and still do, but i just learn to feel comfortable in my skin because no one else will do it for me.

i hoped this helped hun.