*sigh* bitchy friends., what did i do?! Options

[zoe_loves_you]

oki. so heres the dealio.

I have a friend and shes really fun and all but pisses me off sometimes. Like I hang out with her and we do stuff together. But we have been fighting A LOT lately. I never really paid much attention to this before but she always blames EVERYTHING that happens on me. Even if it is obvious that it was something she did. I know this is a minor thing that happened but, once I had some popcorn and she grabs some out of my bag and she spills like half of what she grabbed out. When her dad walks in and tells her to clean it up since I was the guest, she gets upset and says that I was the one who ate the popcorn and that I should clean it up not her. Also, if she cusses (her parents despise cussing) and her mom hears her she says I was the one who said it.
It also kinda bugs me that she never seems to understand that I can know people and be friends with people that she knows even though I don't sit at lunch with them/her. She always like brags about how many plans she has and that she would invite me (yea right) but I probably don't know any of the people she was going with. The problem with this is I have told her millions of times that I am in their classes and they always greet me when we pass the in the hall (school duh). ANDDD I do know all the people that she lists is going with her and she just says oh well or says that I probably aren't friends with them---if that was true then I still could go because she always says that they ignore her other times and that she isn't friends with them herself so I dunno.
She also almost always says she has no friends. If she has no friends, than what am I? She claims to be depressed and cuts herself. She has no reason to cut herself and the only reason she would I have is that to get attention and to look "cool". She degrades herself and I kind of think that its on purpose to get pity from other people. I get comments from her all the time about me having the greatest life in the world and that everything always works well for me and she says that everyone loves me and the world hates her.
When we are alone she always says that she hates it when other people act differently around their "cool friends". When we are around other people, she tries to embarass me and makes rude remarks and I think that this is rather hypocritical. It seems almost like shes competing against me and is jealous or something.
Don't get me wrong, I love her very much as a friend but.. I just don't know if our friendship is very healthy. ADVICE PLEAASEE

[zoe_loves_you]

peoples i know youre reading thiss comment at least!