Break-Up Mediums. |
| *Azarel* |
 Oct 12 2005, 10:35 PM
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Why did you choose that?
I would never break-up with anyone by e-mail or voicemail because that just seems really.. cowardly to me. Online, it allows the other person to save face, and it saves you the guilt and the trouble of having to comfort them while listening to their tears; it also gives you more time to think about how you want to say things, etc. However, this is also somewhat cowardly, and it just seems... heartless. On the phone, you don't have to physically face the person, but how do you cope with listening to their painful reaction? In person, face-to-face is perhaps more difficult to do, but it's the most.. I don't know.. this way, I guess, shows that you care. This probably hurts the most, though. Just curious. |
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Oct 18 2005, 12:53 AM
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I chose Online, via E-mail simply because that's the only way IV'e done it in teh past. Both times he's aske dme out via email so I havn't felt cowardly doing it, not to mention both times It's been less than a relationship...more like a "will you be my girlfriend?" and I respond "no" kind of relationship.
If I had a relationship with someone that really mattered to me and had lasted a fair bit, I wouldn't do it over email. I'd at least phone them up, but I'd prefer talking to them in real life, so I could really express how I feel. EDIT QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Oct 13 2005, 7:41 AM) and then, if it wasn't really a relationship, but the other person just thought so or something, email is fine.  Exactly what I mean by my first paragraph. Ofcourse if I had a real relationship I wouldn't break up over email or IM, that's jsut plain out mean and cowardly. |
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Azarel Break-Up Mediums. Oct 12 2005, 10:35 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b IMO any other way besides face to face i think its... Oct 12 2005, 10:56 PM Chii i do it face to face...but i'd much rather do ... Oct 12 2005, 10:56 PM FreeStickers I chose phone, via conversation. Even though face-... Oct 12 2005, 11:17 PM silver rain Hmm, I think face to face is definitely the hardes... Oct 12 2005, 11:38 PM xbby_charmz All the break ups that I did were face to face. I ... Oct 13 2005, 12:30 AM tequila_sky arghhh:: one of my exs broke up with me on the pho... Oct 13 2005, 12:42 AM Winter I'd have to say face to face. It's a hard ... Oct 13 2005, 03:19 AM stephinika i have to agree with everything you said anna, i c... Oct 13 2005, 08:25 AM sadolakced acid depends on what kind of relationship.
if it was... Oct 13 2005, 10:41 AM Nicolatofu I've always broke up with them face to face be... Oct 13 2005, 12:27 PM pastellove_ i'd say face to face. it's the nicest way ... Oct 13 2005, 12:39 PM KissMe2408 I prefer breaking up with someone face to face. Yo... Oct 13 2005, 01:29 PM iNyCxShoRT I'd do face to face, or through a letter. Oct 13 2005, 01:30 PM Nugget I just broke up with mine on the phone.
He doesn... Oct 13 2005, 01:54 PM oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo You may be scared or something But nopt matter how... Oct 13 2005, 02:11 PM Fabio. Though I've never dated and therefore never br... Oct 13 2005, 02:22 PM mipadi I'd do it face-to-face. But I'm a lover, n... Oct 13 2005, 02:55 PM Rachel is love ^hehe, I like you =]
Anyways, I prefer face to f... Oct 14 2005, 03:15 PM _sarcastic_ i would break it off with him face to face or thro... Oct 14 2005, 08:28 PM OverratedStupidity The only sincere way to break up with someone is f... Oct 17 2005, 07:03 PM yummy_delight I'd pick face-to-face.
Chances are I'd f... Oct 17 2005, 08:08 PM RiC3xBoy I'd definetely do Fact-To-Face. I suppose ther... Oct 17 2005, 08:33 PM SimplicityGirl Well my ex broke up with me over the phone, and I ... Oct 18 2005, 02:03 PM ___misshilton For me, if I'm with someone, I at some point o... Oct 18 2005, 02:06 PM doork hmm i've tried other things before like phone,... Oct 18 2005, 06:46 PM mouse_3k face to face. other ways will show no respect and ... Oct 20 2005, 10:35 AM Kneuklid Romance .....face to face. Eye to eye. That's the fina... Oct 20 2005, 01:02 PM Retrogressive They usually just die... mysteriously Oct 20 2005, 01:59 PM
lit0chinagirl ahaha my ex broke up with me in the worse way poss... Oct 20 2005, 02:03 PM Kneuklid Romance QUOTE(lit0chinagirl @ Oct 20 2005, 2:03 PM)ah... Oct 20 2005, 06:04 PM |
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