my BEST friends crush!?!, why? |
 Oct 13 2005, 07:25 PM
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i don't want to seem like some kind of whore that just steals guys from her best friends. i'm honestly not like that. but this guy that my friend likes, i like him too. and i'm not sure what to do.
we talk to him before school, during lunch (off campus, we hang out) and after school for a long time. my friends flirts out in the open with him.. and i feel bad for her because she hasn't had a boyfriend since fifth grade. We're sophomores in tenth grade now. I really want her to have a nice decent boyfriend, but i can't really help my feelings. we have a football game to go to tomorrow, and he's in drumline with the band. i don't know if i should tell her or not, because this has happened before. i went out with someone that she liked. but it was in my favor, because i liked him first and he liked me back. and she told me to go out with him. i know i shouldn't have though..  i feel SO horrible for this.. but i REALLY don't know what to do. i love her to death... and i don't want to hurt her again, i think i should keep my mouth shut and focus on someone else, but i don't know.. as you can see i'm screwed. 
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Oct 13 2005, 10:41 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
I would really suggest you talk to her about it. Just flat out be like, "uh, yah i feel really bad, because i have a crush on___"
tell her how you feel. It's much better that way. But if she really likes this guy i would advise you to stay outta it. It's better to have lost some crush then have lost your best friend! so first talk to her about it! |
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Oct 18 2005, 12:46 AM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Oct 13 2005, 7:41 PM) I would really suggest you talk to her about it. Just flat out be like, "uh, yah i feel really bad, because i have a crush on___" tell her how you feel. It's much better that way. But if she really likes this guy i would advise you to stay outta it. It's better to have lost some crush then have lost your best friend! so first talk to her about it!  I agree with you, comunication is always good, but if she's really serious about this guy just leave them alone, you don't want to risk losing your best friend. 
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xpaperbag my BEST friends crush!?! Oct 13 2005, 07:25 PM
lilxl0ser awwh...its okay...if i was you, which i was in you... Oct 13 2005, 10:05 PM Shortiiex iif that happened to me i probably compete with he... Oct 13 2005, 10:29 PM sadolakced acid tell her.
tell her you don't want to do anyth... Oct 13 2005, 10:31 PM o0olaalaa don't lose a close friend over a boy. just let... Oct 13 2005, 10:34 PM _sarcastic_ ^yeah, you should tell her. rather lose a crush th... Oct 14 2005, 06:21 AM jummony reminds me of a story....this concited bich hor na... Oct 15 2005, 02:48 AM peggysturr Communicate with your friend. No matter who gets t... Oct 15 2005, 01:13 PM
Kristinaa QUOTE(peggysturr @ Oct 15 2005, 1:13 PM)Commu... Oct 15 2005, 01:26 PM 3ssx aww. i know how you feel. haha in 5th grade me ... Oct 17 2005, 10:51 PM |
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