Should I? Or should I not? |
 Oct 17 2005, 03:03 AM
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I am a very, very inexperienced 15year old at dating and to tell you the truth I don't even want to date, or have a boyfriend. But anyhow.
This guy Shane, who's 14, who I've only seen twice, once for the whole day and another for half the day at his house keeps on asking me out. Or kind of. He sais things like "Sooo...are you my girlfriend? are we going out??" or "can I tell my friends your my girlfriend?" etc. I say no, because obviusly you can't just "be" someones girlfriend, beofre you call yourself someones girlfriend you have to actually know them and just you know, be their girlfriend. I donno if that made sense, but ya. He also talks about how it's the first month of school and he's looking for someone to date and he's getting desperate, and how his old girlfriend moved away etc. So naturally being the person I am I gave him a very, very long pep talk on how life isn't about dating, especially when you're still in highschool. You should concentrate on family, friends, and school, and about your future. It's not that I'm against dating in highschool, if you've known a person for a while and you really like them, than sure, take them out, but why go looking around day after day for someone that wants to go out with you just for the sake of going out on a date? Well, I don't think he really got my point, but here's the reason for the topic. He asked me out to the movies, if I say no, than that's it, I'll never have to talk to him again, he won't bother me, he'll know it's over. But it's not like I hate him, he seems decent...sometimes...and I feel bad about dumping him. But what if I say yes? Is it worth it? What if I jsut start a really bad relationshipi?  I just want some of your opinions
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Oct 17 2005, 10:47 PM
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hmm. well obviously you dont like him the way he likes you.
why dont you get a couple of friends and go to the movies together? if you two go alone. he might think you like him and want to go out with him. OR you could just say no. and explain to him how you feel about the situtation anyhow.. good luck on your decision =] |
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HoodieObsessed Should I? Or should I not? Oct 17 2005, 03:03 AM
niez_cho This is more appropriate in relationships rather t... Oct 17 2005, 04:35 AM OverratedStupidity Take your own advice.
QUOTEI don't even want ... Oct 17 2005, 12:16 PM
HoodieObsessed QUOTE(OverratedStupidity @ Oct 17 2005, 9:16 ... Oct 17 2005, 02:24 PM mzkandi Moved to Relationships Oct 17 2005, 12:20 PM Chii just say no.
if you say yes, you're only doin... Oct 17 2005, 12:28 PM ermfermoo You go out when you think you're in love. If y... Oct 18 2005, 06:24 PM L!ckitySplit he sounds like a goof.
ask if you can bring a fri... Oct 17 2005, 02:34 PM yummy_delight QUOTE(L!ckitySplit @ Oct 17 2005, 12:34 P... Oct 17 2005, 06:56 PM _suzie_ maybe he just wants the chance to get to know u mo... Oct 18 2005, 09:52 AM mipadi A single movie date is hardly a relationship. Oct 18 2005, 11:03 AM notelracailuj if you say yes, he'll think you are going out,... Oct 18 2005, 05:32 PM sunissed14127 Just tell him no. He seems like one of those persi... Oct 18 2005, 06:15 PM ___misshilton if you don't want to be in a relationship... D... Oct 18 2005, 06:18 PM o0olaalaa ew. he's too clingy no offence >.< uhm i... Oct 18 2005, 06:26 PM |
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