what should i do, about him Options

[marilynxmonr03]

i have been best friends with this guy for about 3 years. we started dating about 2 years ago and have been on and off even since. hes the only guy i can ever see myself with, but i wonder if there may be someone ese for me. i get insanely jealous every time he is with another girl. while i was gone for 5 months to spain he had 2-3 relationships (we werent going out while i was gone) sometimes i fel like im going insane because of him. god...dammit.

[Chii]

look, you're 17 and right now, you shouldn't be tied down to one person.

your life has barely begun, go see what else is out there. you should start dating other people too. if your relationship is really strong and is meant to be, then no one should be able to come between you.

if you two do find someone else that would suit you better than each other, go ahead with that.

3 years isn't too big of a deal, it's not that long. if you keep pursuing some guy who doesn't want to be pursued and/or doesn't want what you want anymore, you're just going to be miserable 10 years from now. is it really worth it? is 3 years really worth it to try to stick with someone who upsets you so much?

you can't try to build up something that isn't there anymore.