Should I? Or should I not? Options

[HoodieObsessed]

I am a very, very inexperienced 15year old at dating and to tell you the truth I don't even want to date, or have a boyfriend. But anyhow.

This guy Shane, who's 14, who I've only seen twice, once for the whole day and another for half the day at his house keeps on asking me out. Or kind of. He sais things like "Sooo...are you my girlfriend? are we going out??" or "can I tell my friends your my girlfriend?" etc. I say no, because obviusly you can't just "be" someones girlfriend, beofre you call yourself someones girlfriend you have to actually know them and just you know, be their girlfriend. I donno if that made sense, but ya.

He also talks about how it's the first month of school and he's looking for someone to date and he's getting desperate, and how his old girlfriend moved away etc. So naturally being the person I am I gave him a very, very long pep talk on how life isn't about dating, especially when you're still in highschool. You should concentrate on family, friends, and school, and about your future. It's not that I'm against dating in highschool, if you've known a person for a while and you really like them, than sure, take them out, but why go looking around day after day for someone that wants to go out with you just for the sake of going out on a date?

Well, I don't think he really got my point, but here's the reason for the topic. He asked me out to the movies, if I say no, than that's it, I'll never have to talk to him again, he won't bother me, he'll know it's over. But it's not like I hate him, he seems decent...sometimes...and I feel bad about dumping him. But what if I say yes? Is it worth it? What if I jsut start a really bad relationshipi? I just want some of your opinions

[Chii]

just say no.

if you say yes, you're only doing it because you feel bad for him. you should never be with someone because you pity them.