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finding someone new, after being broken up for only 3 secs
Froshy
post Oct 16 2005, 12:49 AM
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So pretty much my ex-boyfriend who I went out with for 5 months and broke up with 2 weeks ago has found solace in another girl.....who happens to be one of my good friends

And I'm just thinking here "Wtf man?"

It was a really good relationship and we ended things on good terms. It's been a really tough transition from boyfriend to.... friend. Don't you think it's too soon to be jumping back on the saddle again?

It hurts me to think that my friend isn't really taking into concideration my feelings. I have no problem with them being together but....I'd prefer that they weren't. I feel that I'm placed in a really awkward situation.

Should I say something? Or should I just stand idly by and let them be?

just needed to vent.
 
 
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*mipadi*
post Oct 16 2005, 01:01 PM
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Hey, you two broke up. You should have no expectation that he shouldn't start another relationship. As for your friend, I think that the rule that "friends can't date their friends' exes" is just stupid and immature. It didn't work out between you and him; why prevent someone else from having a shot?
 
Latina Babii
post Oct 16 2005, 09:34 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 16 2005, 1:01 PM)
Hey, you two broke up. You should have no expectation that he shouldn't start another relationship. As for your friend, I think that the rule that "friends can't date their friends' exes" is just stupid and immature. It didn't work out between you and him; why prevent someone else from having a shot?
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But, isn't it always hard to move on, no matter? When my boyfriend broke up with me and went out with another girl, well, it was my friend, and she dregarded my feelings and people kept telling me that he wasn't good enough for me anyway yada yada ya, well that doesn't stop the fact that it hurts, we can't just say, well ok, it's over, and move on, no, you spent time with that person and got to know them, and now theres nothing? AS if! Moving on is actually quite hard.

And to tell you he wasn't good enough if he left you, especially without a reason, so, sit down with some girlfriends, eat some icecream, spend a little more time with them. I guaruntee that if you spend time with them and have some fun, you'll forget everything that happened, just tell the girls it's a girls night out, and they'll know what to do ^^.
 

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Froshy   finding someone new   Oct 16 2005, 12:49 AM
lexaa621   wow almost exact same thing happened to me. last w...   Oct 16 2005, 01:37 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   If you broke up with him it most likely implied yo...   Oct 16 2005, 01:46 AM
yanners   wow. forgive me for being rude, but that friend o...   Oct 16 2005, 02:46 AM
BrandonSaunders   Hey hun, here's a newsflash... he didn't l...   Oct 16 2005, 03:09 AM
_sarcastic_   i agree with yanners, she shouldn't even be co...   Oct 16 2005, 07:12 AM
mipadi   Hey, you two broke up. You should have no expectat...   Oct 16 2005, 01:01 PM
x____duckii   QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 16 2005, 2:01 PM)It didn...   Oct 16 2005, 05:23 PM
Latina Babii   QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 16 2005, 1:01 PM)Hey, you ...   Oct 16 2005, 09:34 PM
HoodieObsessed   QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 16 2005, 10:01 AM)Hey, you...   Oct 17 2005, 01:57 PM
iNyCxShoRT   QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 16 2005, 1:01 PM)Hey, you ...   Oct 18 2005, 06:07 PM
miz_sunshine   ^ what he said. It's not like after he and you...   Oct 16 2005, 01:05 PM
hulagurlie413   that's f*cked up shit what they did to you. ob...   Oct 16 2005, 08:27 PM
Chii   oh my god, why are you being so dramatic? the rel...   Oct 16 2005, 09:54 PM
hulagurlie413   QUOTE(Chii @ Oct 16 2005, 10:54 PM)oh my god,...   Oct 17 2005, 09:52 PM
aznhunnie6o1   I think you should talk to her about it.. She migh...   Oct 16 2005, 11:02 PM
tequila_sky   Well I was with a guy for 2 years then *he* dumped...   Oct 17 2005, 08:32 AM
OverratedStupidity   2 weeks is plenty of time for a 5 month realtionsh...   Oct 17 2005, 11:24 AM
KissMe2408   ah, well the exact same thing happened to me, cept...   Oct 17 2005, 02:07 PM
malimars   Obviously shes not a real friend NO MATTER WHAT fr...   Oct 17 2005, 03:05 PM
CrazykidXD   thank you   Oct 17 2005, 09:23 PM
3ssx   tell her how you feel. people are vunerable(sp?)...   Oct 17 2005, 10:43 PM


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