finding someone new, after being broken up for only 3 secs |
finding someone new, after being broken up for only 3 secs |
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![]() one.love ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,824 ![]() |
So pretty much my ex-boyfriend who I went out with for 5 months and broke up with 2 weeks ago has found solace in another girl.....who happens to be one of my good friends
And I'm just thinking here "Wtf man?" It was a really good relationship and we ended things on good terms. It's been a really tough transition from boyfriend to.... friend. Don't you think it's too soon to be jumping back on the saddle again? It hurts me to think that my friend isn't really taking into concideration my feelings. I have no problem with them being together but....I'd prefer that they weren't. I feel that I'm placed in a really awkward situation. Should I say something? Or should I just stand idly by and let them be? just needed to vent. |
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*mipadi* |
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Hey, you two broke up. You should have no expectation that he shouldn't start another relationship. As for your friend, I think that the rule that "friends can't date their friends' exes" is just stupid and immature. It didn't work out between you and him; why prevent someone else from having a shot?
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![]() Proud to be an Anime Otaku ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 667 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,004 ![]() |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 16 2005, 1:01 PM) Hey, you two broke up. You should have no expectation that he shouldn't start another relationship. As for your friend, I think that the rule that "friends can't date their friends' exes" is just stupid and immature. It didn't work out between you and him; why prevent someone else from having a shot? But, isn't it always hard to move on, no matter? When my boyfriend broke up with me and went out with another girl, well, it was my friend, and she dregarded my feelings and people kept telling me that he wasn't good enough for me anyway yada yada ya, well that doesn't stop the fact that it hurts, we can't just say, well ok, it's over, and move on, no, you spent time with that person and got to know them, and now theres nothing? AS if! Moving on is actually quite hard. And to tell you he wasn't good enough if he left you, especially without a reason, so, sit down with some girlfriends, eat some icecream, spend a little more time with them. I guaruntee that if you spend time with them and have some fun, you'll forget everything that happened, just tell the girls it's a girls night out, and they'll know what to do ^^. |
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