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OkamaPower
post Oct 10 2005, 09:40 PM
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i have a girlfriend see.and im walking my best friend to class.i always call girls beautiful and i compliment them and i always carry my best friends book. and watch over her...u know....when someone touch her....i kick thier azz....do u think thats cheating....
 
 
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evanbunnell
post Oct 16 2005, 03:00 AM
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You're all so possessive. Not wanting your boyfriend to comment on the way he views another person is one thing, but getting mad over it? Too much, far too much. He's not engaging in flirtatious activity, he's not holding hands and rubbing noses, he's holding books and saying, "You're very beautiful." What if she was crying because she felt that she wasn't beautiful (which I disagree with also, but that's another story) would you try to restrain him from saying, "No, of course you're beautiful!"?

Just because somebody compliments another person on their looks, or how much fun they are, or anything like that, does not mean they're flirting and you have no logical reason to be upset other than your own insecurities. A significant other/spouse is not a possession, it's just as it says. Significant other. One who isn't you, but lies on an equal plain. Allow them to make decisions and live life accordingly.

I guess I'm just ranting here, but it seems like such a close-minded thing to say. "No you cannot compliment other people. Your compliments better be aimed at me."

I still love you, though.
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EDIT: 3 AM makes you extremely hyper, but also extremely outspoken. Sorry.
 

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jummony   cheating.....   Oct 10 2005, 09:40 PM
RiC3xBoy   No, but it is kinda dancing around it.(as in the c...   Oct 10 2005, 09:44 PM
silver rain   QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Oct 10 2005, 10:44 PM)No, bu...   Oct 10 2005, 11:11 PM
KissMe2408   QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Oct 10 2005, 9:44 PM)No, but...   Oct 11 2005, 11:43 PM
hulagurlie413   well...i dunno that's kind of a hard one. i me...   Oct 11 2005, 02:32 AM
K!$$   ^ No, that wasn't bitchy at all. In fact that...   Oct 11 2005, 04:04 AM
_sarcastic_   ^i agree. i would be really pissed off if my bf d...   Oct 11 2005, 06:24 PM
itsnever4ever   I think that if you really love your girlfriend th...   Oct 11 2005, 06:44 PM
Mizz Rizza   well usually when you hav a girlfriend and a girl ...   Oct 11 2005, 09:39 PM
BrokenDream   that seems like just flirting to me. ...but it may...   Oct 11 2005, 11:46 PM
tequila_sky   I dont let any male friends call me beautiful unle...   Oct 12 2005, 06:00 AM
andromeda_90   No it's not cheating. Cheating would be bangin...   Oct 12 2005, 07:08 PM
xbby_charmz   not cheating man but i would get seriously jelous ...   Oct 13 2005, 12:44 AM
eunie03   Unfortunately, we live in a world where men and wo...   Oct 13 2005, 12:48 AM
pastellove_   QUOTE(eunie03 @ Oct 12 2005, 9:48 PM)Unfortun...   Oct 14 2005, 09:35 PM
andromeda_90   oyeah i want to add to what i said... if you spen...   Oct 13 2005, 04:30 PM
jummony   im spend more time with my best friend then with m...   Oct 15 2005, 02:40 AM
evanbunnell   Compliments are cool, so long as that's all th...   Oct 15 2005, 04:03 AM
andromeda_90   ^ Mr. Bunnell boy are you wise...   Oct 15 2005, 11:39 AM
andromeda_90   Break up with your gf...sounds like you don't ...   Oct 15 2005, 07:13 PM
Kristinaa   No, you're not cheating. You will be if those ...   Oct 15 2005, 08:54 PM
aarsk8rgurl44   um, i would get pissed if my ex (well when i was g...   Oct 15 2005, 08:56 PM
evanbunnell   You're all so possessive. Not wanting your bo...   Oct 16 2005, 03:00 AM
hulagurlie413   QUOTE(evanbunnell @ Oct 16 2005, 4:00 AM)You...   Oct 18 2005, 02:04 AM
yanners   ^ hahah. you are very wise indeed, even though yo...   Oct 16 2005, 03:08 AM
marilynxmonr03   its hard to say. what do you mean by it? girls wil...   Oct 17 2005, 01:31 AM
OverratedStupidity   Is it cheating?? No. Does it make you look suspic...   Oct 17 2005, 11:33 AM


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