crushes & best friends, help please.... |
crushes & best friends, help please.... |
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I love you <33333 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 ![]() |
Ok, so I don't really ask relationship questions on CB, but I have no one at home to really talk to this about because they wouldnt understand where I'm coming from, so, here it goes.
I've liked this guy, lets call him Craig, since the beginning of the school year. We started talking to each other last year, and this year is the year we've become really good friends. Well Craig has been dating one of my best freinds, lets call her Kim, for 3 weeks now. It's been really hard for me to not flirt or tell anyone how I feel. So far i've only told 1 person I like Craig. I'm not sure if I should try to get over him & move on, tell him, or tell kim, or....well I'm just so confused I don't know what to do. I just need some advice on what you think I should do or what you did in my situation. Thanks ![]() |
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 ![]() |
You should leave them be. If you tell them that you like Craig and force your feelings on him then that would just hurt Craig and being selfish. I say this a lot in relationship topics but like i ALWAYS say, "if you love/like someone, you should think more of ther happiness than your own". I learned that the hard way but to know that your selflessness helped the person i care for to be happy is comforting. BUT you CAN tell them that you like him but i won't approove of you demanding those feelings to be returned. But it would be nice if you have someone who you can talk about it with and besides... you'll find someone else you'll like better so dont give up and wish happiness to the world!
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