crushes & best friends, help please.... |
crushes & best friends, help please.... |
Oct 15 2005, 10:42 PM
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I love you <33333 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
Ok, so I don't really ask relationship questions on CB, but I have no one at home to really talk to this about because they wouldnt understand where I'm coming from, so, here it goes.
I've liked this guy, lets call him Craig, since the beginning of the school year. We started talking to each other last year, and this year is the year we've become really good friends. Well Craig has been dating one of my best freinds, lets call her Kim, for 3 weeks now. It's been really hard for me to not flirt or tell anyone how I feel. So far i've only told 1 person I like Craig. I'm not sure if I should try to get over him & move on, tell him, or tell kim, or....well I'm just so confused I don't know what to do. I just need some advice on what you think I should do or what you did in my situation. Thanks |
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Oct 15 2005, 10:49 PM
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
You should leave them be. If you tell them that you like Craig and force your feelings on him then that would just hurt Craig and being selfish. I say this a lot in relationship topics but like i ALWAYS say, "if you love/like someone, you should think more of ther happiness than your own". I learned that the hard way but to know that your selflessness helped the person i care for to be happy is comforting. BUT you CAN tell them that you like him but i won't approove of you demanding those feelings to be returned. But it would be nice if you have someone who you can talk about it with and besides... you'll find someone else you'll like better so dont give up and wish happiness to the world!
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sunissed14127 crushes & best friends Oct 15 2005, 10:42 PM
sadolakced acid tell your friend, apologize.
try harder not to fl... Oct 15 2005, 11:16 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura .. Do you like this guy as a friend? I think you m... Oct 15 2005, 11:47 PM
sunissed14127 ^No, I started out liking him has a friend, and th... Oct 16 2005, 10:06 AM
brownsugar08 There are topics like this already. This for examp... Oct 16 2005, 10:59 AM
xxaznxgurlxx You should really move on with your life besides g... Oct 16 2005, 02:30 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1 u should just ignore ur feelings until their relat... Oct 16 2005, 02:33 PM
K!$$ QUOTE(brownsugar08 @ Oct 16 2005, 10:59 PM)I ... Oct 20 2005, 10:32 AM
sunissed14127 ^ Good idea.....I'll suggest that hahaha Oct 17 2005, 09:00 PM
3ssx i think you should let them be. try to get over hi... Oct 17 2005, 10:40 PM
DrEaMgUy2K1 of course i was kidding and only someone as idioti... Oct 21 2005, 12:53 PM
K!$$ Let me know about the results after you try it som... Oct 22 2005, 11:57 AM![]() ![]() |