bad hygeine!, he's unpresentable. Options

[Kounouri]

My boyfriend has REALLY BAD HYGEINE.

He has long hair that only brushes before he showers- which only happens once or twice a week, otherwise he just washes his hair every couple days in the sink. He has braces, but he doesn't take care of them and brushes his teeth only once a day(sometimes he forgets in the mornings) so he often has bad breath. He doesn't do his own laundry, so he'll pull dirty clothes off the floor to wear, which sometimes smell at the end of a schoolday ... and when eats messily and noisily, so it's really unattractive. All this really turns me off, and I tell him so sometimes- but I hate to nag so I always feel guilty telling him to go brush his teeth or hair. I think it makes him feel bad how I comment about it sometimes, but it needs to be said- hygenically, he's a slob. I don't know how to turn him around, to get him to take a full shower atleast every other day and to keep himself decent-looking and smelling.

Other than this, our relationship is really strong- he's really loving and easy to get along with, we're honest with eachother and we've been dating for 6 months. We have the same interests and ideas, but his hygeine is really unattractive and gross for me to deal with. I don't know how to get the point across without feeling guilty or making him feel bad- like I said, I tell him sometimes but he doesn't seem to care much.

I know teenage boys are like this to begin with, and being somewhat of a tomboy, I can deal with the farting, burping and messiness. But his hair looks oily all the time and it's gotten to the point where I have to tell him to be presentable if we're going somewhere outside the house. I actually had a friend of mine the other day- a straight guy, by the way- tell my that my boyfriend is "getting ugly."

How do I break it to him nicely?

[miz_sunshine]

I agree with Paradox of Life. If you two are close and honest with each other, there should be no problem to tell him. Even though it's hard and since it's really getting to you, just tell him. If you feel like your nagging by saying it almost everyday(not saying you arre cuz i dont know if you are) have a nice long talk and work it out.