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 Oct 11 2005, 03:24 PM
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so okay, pleassse don't think of me as shallow after you read this. i'm just really confused. to make a reallly long story short, awhile ago i was going out with this guy.. we'll call him Bob. I broke up with Bob because he kept flirting with other girls. Then I went out with....we'll call him George. All was well but i started feeling like George was more of a good friend than a boyfriend to me. Bob started liking me again.. I broke up with George... so Bob and I went back out. That was all good and fine but he dumped me after a week because he "wanted to get over the others girls he liked before we went out". supposedly. So whatever... I went back out with George.. cause I was lonely. and liked him a lot. So now for the present-- I'm going out with George, and Bob has started flirting with me again. I suppose you never really forget the ones you love... because I realize I like Bob more like a b/f than a friend, and like George more as a friend than a b/f... So I'm stuck here not knowing what to do. I'm afraid everyones gonna think I'm shallow if I dump George, or what if history repeats itself and I go back out with Bob all in vain? but then if I stick with George... I will never know what could've happened. so many what if's...
I hope this wasn't too long.. I'm just really confused and need some advice.. Thanks so much for the help. |
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Oct 13 2005, 02:21 PM
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Follow your heart. Do what you feel is right. If you sit down and talk with George, and tell him that he's more of a friend then a bf and you want to go back out with Bob maybe he will understand. If someone love's you, they should do everything in their power to understand why you feel that way. And seem's to me you care for bob. Don't just ditch george without explaing it and make him understand why your doing it before u leave. If not..hell will break loose. Good luck, and always do what you fell is right.
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dreamerfreak22 need advice... Oct 11 2005, 03:24 PM
_sarcastic_ if you really want to go out with bob then go for ... Oct 11 2005, 06:22 PM starburst-addict well...i would go with bob. but that could end up ... Oct 12 2005, 03:50 AM tequila_sky Go out with Bob and if he dumps you stop going bac... Oct 12 2005, 06:03 AM Chii just be single.
all you're doing is hurting g... Oct 12 2005, 10:59 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b Stop going from boy to boy. Its mean and wrong to ... Oct 12 2005, 11:02 PM Fabio. That's a tough one. Honestly, I'd agree wi... Oct 13 2005, 02:24 PM
andromeda_90 People take relationships seriously nowadays...
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