Friend?, ...would do this? |
 Oct 10 2005, 08:40 PM
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This didnt happen all that recently, im just kinda brooding cuz this "friend" has got me really mad right now so yea...
 But is this right? -- Here's the story -- Okay so me and this guy had just gotten together and it had been a little over 2 months. The guy was kinda moving a little too fast cuz for me 2 months is not a very long time. I was IMing my friend and we were talking about guys and i brought it up that he was kinda moving too fast. What i asked her was, "I want him to stop moving this fast, so how should i talk to him abt it?" -- DOn't get me wrong, he was a sweet guy just somewhat perverted at times.. So what she does is invite us both into a chatroom and and she types: "all in favor of breaking up say i" The guy just typed wtf? and thats all i saw b4 i signed off cuz this wasnt a convo i wanted to have on aim. I just told the guy i would talk to him abt this in school tomorrow. And my friend had the nerve to yell at me that she was trying to help me and i signed off. So is it just me or is it kinda bizarre and wrong that she did that? -- As for the guy and me, we ended up breaking up bcuz he thought i wanted to break up with him bcuz of this huge misunderstanding... -- It's just shes been acting kinda bitchy lately so im kinda grudging right now.. 
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Oct 12 2005, 11:03 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
first off, friends are forever and boyfriends come and go blah blah.
she got mad because she was probably honestly trying to help but she got it all wrong. just have a little talk with her about how that's not what you wanted and that she should tell you about stuff like that before she does them. then patch things up with the guy. tell him what you told her. you were unsure about how things were and that you're not comfortable with him going so fast. you told your friend and she was just trying to help. tell him that breaking up is not what you wanted. |
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azndreamer Friend? Oct 10 2005, 08:40 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b THat was stupid and no way of solving anything. Ve... Oct 10 2005, 08:58 PM _sarcastic_ you better go talk to the guy and straighten thing... Oct 10 2005, 09:44 PM dao yeah, like what they said you should have a talk b... Oct 10 2005, 11:52 PM K!$$ First of all, tell your friend she needs to spell ... Oct 11 2005, 05:15 AM tequila_sky Ugh, what a friend!??! She still yelled a... Oct 11 2005, 10:01 AM Mizz Rizza well if you really like the guy still
then talk to... Oct 11 2005, 09:44 PM
xbby_charmz that girl sucks boottie!!! lol but ser... Oct 13 2005, 12:40 AM |
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