friends, trying to fit in with a group Options

[timeflies51]

Alright, here's the deal.

There's a nice-sized group of people that hang out together, and I've been trying to fit in with that group. I'm pretty acquainted with most of them, and I get along with them rather well. They seem to like me, yet ever time someone holds a party I'm not invited.

I've been trying to fit in with this group ever since last year, because the old group I used to hang out with has pretty much broken apart. (I still talk with most of them, though, but it's not the same as it used to be.) However, one guy we all used to hate is suddenly accepted and invited to parties! But me, who has been trying much longer and knows most of them better than he ever did, is not.

Sometimes I wonder if they truly like me. Sometimes I wonder if they're all putting on a kind mask when they talk to me, and in truth they dislike me. Sometimes I get that vibe. I've lightly brought up the subject to a couple of people, but I always get response like, "Yeah..." and stuff like that. So I don't know.

I'm holding a party for most of this group next month, hopefully to strengthen some friendships. But I just don't know what the deal is, because if they really don't like me then I have very few friends.

Any thoughts on this?

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Have the party if you want.

But Eff that group of kids. Dont try to so hard to fit in. If yu have a feeling they dont accept you , find people who will. People who you have to try and please in order to keep friends with arent really all that great to be friends with. Believe me, i went through the same thing. Ive given this advice a lot, You should just be care-free. Make friends with everyone and just have fun. People will come to you and want to be your friend since yu seem so carefree fun and just like a great person.