I need some advice!! |
 Oct 4 2005, 07:50 AM
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Okay...well I need some advice...ummm..I have a baby by my exboyfriend..we've been seperated for almost a year now, cause he had a really bad drinking problem and now he has a drug problem...well not anymore cause he went into rehab...anyway, We were together for 5 years and we have a kid together, and we want to try it again, we really want to be together and start out life over, and raise out son together. I do Love him with all my heart...BUT I AM REALLY SCARED....I DONT WANT TO PUT UP WITH THE DRINKING OR DRUGS ANYMORE...DO YOU THINK PEOPLE CAN CHANGE??
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Oct 4 2005, 09:52 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
I am all for people changing their lives around. But, when it comes down to you and your child....i would be very...very...very careful. I would wait alot longer before you guys even think about getting into a relationship again. I think it was very smart of you to split because of the drugs and alchohol. Of course, every kid needs their dad, but i would start off by just visiting him with your baby. Maybe spend the weekend going somewhere, take it really slow. Don't just jump back into a relationship with him if ever. For now especially i would just remain friends and then later on see what happens. Be sure that this drug and alchohol problem is really over, ya know?
I will be praying for you. |
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erikap16 I need some advice!! Oct 4 2005, 07:50 AM
mzkandi I do believe people can change. Its good that he w... Oct 4 2005, 08:35 AM
K!$$ ^ Amen.
I agree with KissMe2408.. wait a while be... Oct 5 2005, 04:40 AM |
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