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abusive parents?, anyone?
kodomo_ja_nai
post Oct 4 2005, 01:11 AM
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dunno how many of you consider your parents to be abusive (emotionally or physically or any other form of abuse) but god, i'm tired of my mom...
the physical beatings i can bear (when i say beatings, i don't mean a simple spanking.. i mean it's black and blue) but when she puts me down or tells me what i can and cannot do (she won't even let me go out later than 8pm and i'm 18 years old already for god's sake!), it gets to the point where i feel... choked... stranggled..
if that's not enough for abuse, talk about economic abuse... she takes my hard-earned money and says, "i'll keep it for you so that you won't spend it" (even though i have a checking account) and just stashes it away for her own use. i never see that money ever again... ><
i'm not really sure if i'm looking for advice (i probably am cuz i'm about to burst here) but i'm certainly not looking for anyone's pity....
i guess i just want people to know how lucky they are for having good parents.. it's way better than winning the lottery...
 
 
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silver-rain
post Oct 4 2005, 12:18 PM
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My parents are emotionally abusive, they always put me down for every little thing I do...
But I think you should get help. Since you are a legal adult, you have the right over the money you earn, and no one else. Tell someone, an adult, who can help you. Also, since she apparently abuses you physically, you should definitely talk to someone about this.
 

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