online relationships, getting creepy Options

[ParanoidAndroid]

if there's already a topic about this... GOMENOSAI! I AM SORRY! just please close it then ^_^

I don't mean to be bragging, but this guy from xanga just started IMing me and he's younger than me by 2 years. And after a few weeks, he said he loves me... OKAY I AM CREEEEPED OUT. I kinda think he don't even know what he's saying. Everytime i have to sign off, he keeps making me promise to come back online tomorrow although i keep telling him that i can't guarantee that. and when i say i can't promise, he would send 100000000 e-mails and i am afraid he might track me down to this point... can anybody give some tips on how to get rid of this guy... in a nice way?

[silentgirl7]

wow that must be hard. don't worry ur definitely not bragging.

_ First, u have to stop being nice to him act like a real biatch and maybe he won't like u anymore. i kno that sounds stupid but if u hate him he has no point in bugging u.

_ Don't sign on for a while he'd prolly give up if he has no absolute way to get a hold of you.

_ Don't answer his emails or ims. not even an "i'm sorry" or "i can't talk right now" he just wants the attention so act like he's not there.

_ If he's really that physco threating to commit suiscide & all then that's prolly not all he's capable of. i mean, ur not helping him by letting him take advantage of your kindness he'll just become more obsessively dependent on people and continue this unhealty attitude.

_ They're right about the possiblity of him lying about his age & for all u kno he might live closer than he says.

_ It's ur safety or his feelings. it's not ur fault if he does something crazy but i doubt he would if u let him know it won't affect you.

_ even if ur not in danger this is unfair for you and it's making u uncomfortable and that's a good enough to do something about it so even if he's just some little pervert who needs a life it's still important that u can sign on in peace w/out some little nerd bugging you..

good luck!