should i let my daughter go out ? |
 Sep 28 2005, 04:16 PM
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ok well my daughter is 15 n this guy that asked her to go see a movie is 18 , they have a class together in school. i met him yesterday n he seems like a pretty kewl kid. i trust my daughter to not do sumthing stupid, but i dont think i trust him all the way.. what should i do ?? btw this is her account .. im just tryin to get advice from u guys
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Oct 2 2005, 06:44 PM
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Well, I don't have any children yet, but I'm pregnant with a baby which I hope is a girl, haha. My opinion? Let your daughter date him. She's 15, sure she may not be at her maturity peak, but she's a young teenager, and that's okay. You can't keep her as "your little girl" forever, and I know it's hard to let your child go, but it was going to happen sooner or later that she was dating someone older than her. She's 15, he's 18, she's still a minor, and if that's what's concerning you, don't be too worried. I think you should trust your daughter to make the right decision on her own. IF she does end up having sex with him (if that's what you're worried about...) then it's her body, her decision and if she gets hurt in the end, maybe she'll learn her lesson. You have to let kids learn their own lessons. You can't try to shelter them. Now, you were 15 when you had your daughter, and if you were responsible enough to take care of a baby, I certainly think your daughter is responsible enough to make the right choices when she's out on a date with the 18 year old boy.
(By the way, I'm 21, my husband is 24. It's the same age difference as your daughter's and that boy's. It doesn't sound so bad now, does it? It's just because 15 sounds so young and 18 sounds so old compared to that...) This post has been edited by x3chrissyx3: Oct 2 2005, 06:46 PM |
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Oct 4 2005, 08:55 AM
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QUOTE(x3chrissyx3 @ Oct 2 2005, 7:44 PM) (By the way, I'm 21, my husband is 24. It's the same age difference as your daughter's and that boy's. It doesn't sound so bad now, does it? It's just because 15 sounds so young and 18 sounds so old compared to that...)  The age difference between 21 and 24, and 15 and 18, might be equal, but it's not really the same. A 21- and 24-year-old are both more mature relative to one another than an 18- and 15-year-old. |
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crazi_in_love_08 should i let my daughter go out ? Sep 28 2005, 04:16 PM
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B. If a 30 year old... Sep 28 2005, 05:49 PM Azn Kid from NY QUOTEshut the f**k up tweeak this aint grammar sch... Sep 28 2005, 06:19 PM yummy_delight 1. I don't think you're 30 YOU ARE NOT 30.... Sep 28 2005, 06:19 PM aznxdreamer welcome to "you must have perfect grammar and... Sep 28 2005, 06:21 PM mzkandi Ok, if you dont believe its her then dont post in ... Sep 28 2005, 06:46 PM mzkandi Before I start verbal warning people, let me repea... Sep 29 2005, 06:30 PM pastellove_ QUOTE(mzkandi @ Sep 28 2005, 3:46 PM)Ok, if y... Sep 29 2005, 10:39 PM shadkitty Alright then...I'm 20 going on 21. I've go... Sep 28 2005, 07:10 PM c0cONuTTeR My dad talks illiterate. I'm like, dad please ... Sep 28 2005, 08:18 PM L!ckitySplit maybe! maybe! she is the mother! and, ... Sep 28 2005, 08:21 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b You should let her.
Trust her a little, she'll... Sep 28 2005, 10:10 PM peggysturr Seriously, I am almost sure that you are lying. Un... Sep 28 2005, 10:37 PM Blue-Chan Well, talk to her.
Even if she thinks it's goi... Sep 28 2005, 10:54 PM kpgrl4eva ...yea, sure, let "her" go out. Sep 28 2005, 11:11 PM salcha I wonder what your daughter will say when she sees... Sep 29 2005, 12:13 AM mouse_3k wow ok everyone chill. It dont matter how she type... Sep 29 2005, 10:33 AM x____duckii QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 29 2005, 11:33 AM)So ya... Oct 1 2005, 11:43 PM grrfield QUOTE(x____duckii @ Oct 1 2005, 11:43 PM)
Tha... Oct 2 2005, 01:51 AM Spirited Away QUOTE(grrfield @ Oct 2 2005, 1:51 AM)who care... Oct 2 2005, 09:47 AM crazi_in_love_08 ok. I will type right ... just for you guys who do... Sep 29 2005, 04:05 PM aznxdreamer hey people, shush with thte grammar and typing and... Sep 29 2005, 04:55 PM xxaznxgurlxx As all the other people have said ; you don't ... Sep 29 2005, 05:09 PM CrazayChristian Bull shit you're 30, no 30 year old types like... Sep 29 2005, 05:59 PM Azn Kid from NY ^
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