crush, YES, I SEARCHED! |
crush, YES, I SEARCHED! |
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Don't sue me if there's a topic like this already, I searched.
Okay, so. I have a boyfriend who I really, really, really like and possibly even love. But, I have a crush on this boy in a few of my classes. I flirt with him during school but when I get home and talk to my boyfriend I realize that all I want is him. So, here's the question - Should I feel bad about having a crush on this kid/flirting with him? Because I do. |
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as long as you don't do anything intimate with this person, then it's fine... by intimate, i'm not limiting it to anything sexual... i mean.. if you start sharing your deepest, most inner thoughts with him.. if you start to phone him in the dead of the night just because you wanted to hear his voice.. get it..?
you like (possibly love) your bf, right? it's not like you're replacing him or whatever.. but of course your boyfriend might not see it that way..... to be on the safe side (which i always try to be on), i'd stop with the flirting and just treat him like i would any other male.. |
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