3 years, is is too long for us? |
 Oct 1 2005, 06:39 PM
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My boyfriend and I recently made 3 years. But its like he doesnt act the same anymore. He rarely says sweet things anymore. I really need that attention from him though, to know that he cares. I've tried numerous times talking to him about it...but he only gets angry at me for it. & its like lately he wants to spend less & less time together....like when i'm like "well u can stay home" instead of sayin no b/c he WANTS to see me he'll be like "no, u'll get mad" Does this mean he doesn't care for me anymore or is he just having a hard time showing me that he cares? sorry if i left anything vital out
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Oct 1 2005, 07:42 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i'm sorry honey but this is how men work, i read about it.
it's been 3 years, he doesn't feel like he has to woo you anymore. he figures he doesn't have to try to get you because you're already his. just try talking to him. if you should take the first step in being romantic, maybe he will follow your example. by the way...i'm not sure what you meant by the "is that too long for us" part...people get married and stay married for a lot longer than 3 years. if two people can't stand being together for more than 3 years than it can't work.  |
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HuGzNKissEs 3 years Oct 1 2005, 06:39 PM
mipadi Relationships often become "stale" after... Oct 1 2005, 06:43 PM L!ckitySplit maybe he just figures he doesnt have to prove that... Oct 1 2005, 06:54 PM FREEcandies ^ Precisely.
And also, just because he doesn... Oct 1 2005, 06:57 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b I agree with Mipadi.
Do something you guys have ne... Oct 1 2005, 06:57 PM Spiritual Winged Aura Do the most simplest thing for him. It actually co... Oct 1 2005, 07:57 PM silver rain That's kinda like my relationship with my boyf... Oct 1 2005, 08:22 PM WindSorcerous Maybe he could be just really comfortable with you... Oct 1 2005, 08:27 PM andromeda_90 It's just a sign that he thinks you're bei... Oct 1 2005, 09:02 PM
c4rL4 WELL..
MAYBE i think that stay for away for a whil... Oct 3 2005, 02:06 AM |
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