3 years, is is too long for us? |
 Oct 1 2005, 06:39 PM
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My boyfriend and I recently made 3 years. But its like he doesnt act the same anymore. He rarely says sweet things anymore. I really need that attention from him though, to know that he cares. I've tried numerous times talking to him about it...but he only gets angry at me for it. & its like lately he wants to spend less & less time together....like when i'm like "well u can stay home" instead of sayin no b/c he WANTS to see me he'll be like "no, u'll get mad" Does this mean he doesn't care for me anymore or is he just having a hard time showing me that he cares? sorry if i left anything vital out
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| *mipadi* |
Oct 1 2005, 06:43 PM
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Relationships often become "stale" after a while. That doesn't mean there's no love; it just means that they become, well, routine. The fun and romance of the beginning of a relationship often dwindles. I think that when a couple has been together as long as you have, there sometimes becomes a certain expectation or belief by one member that the other just "knows" that he still loves her, and he doesn't need to go out of his way to show it.
Maybe all your relationship needs is a "spark" to rekindle it. Try doing something out of the ordinary, something not routine, to get it jumpstarted. |
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HuGzNKissEs 3 years Oct 1 2005, 06:39 PM
L!ckitySplit maybe he just figures he doesnt have to prove that... Oct 1 2005, 06:54 PM FREEcandies ^ Precisely.
And also, just because he doesn... Oct 1 2005, 06:57 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b I agree with Mipadi.
Do something you guys have ne... Oct 1 2005, 06:57 PM Chii i'm sorry honey but this is how men work, i re... Oct 1 2005, 07:42 PM Spiritual Winged Aura Do the most simplest thing for him. It actually co... Oct 1 2005, 07:57 PM silver rain That's kinda like my relationship with my boyf... Oct 1 2005, 08:22 PM WindSorcerous Maybe he could be just really comfortable with you... Oct 1 2005, 08:27 PM andromeda_90 It's just a sign that he thinks you're bei... Oct 1 2005, 09:02 PM
c4rL4 WELL..
MAYBE i think that stay for away for a whil... Oct 3 2005, 02:06 AM |
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