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should i let my daughter go out ?
crazi_in_love_08
post Sep 28 2005, 04:16 PM
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ok well my daughter is 15 n this guy that asked her to go see a movie is 18 , they have a class together in school. i met him yesterday n he seems like a pretty kewl kid. i trust my daughter to not do sumthing stupid, but i dont think i trust him all the way.. what should i do ?? btw this is her account .. im just tryin to get advice from u guys
 
 
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PinkTrash
post Sep 29 2005, 10:29 PM
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Why does it matter if she's lieing about her age or not anyway? It wouldn't matter in anyway.. she's not gaining anything. Atleast in my point of view she isn't..
Also, you can't say she finished high school. Afterall you guys 'theorized' that she had her daughter at 15, and maybe she dropped out. Stop assuming..

And no. If I were you, I wouldnt let my daughter date the guy. Since you did have your daughter at 15[?] and made the same mistake as her[?] just tell her about your experience. Or if thats not true.. then just make up a story =) but get it through thats it not good for her to date an 18 year old. Sure, a friendly hang outs here and there but make sure nothing serious happends.
 
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post Sep 30 2005, 09:10 AM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 29 2005, 10:33 AM)
wow ok everyone chill. It dont matter how she types, she needs advice. instead of wasting all your time on complaining and b!tching on how she types, why dont you actually help her damn.

my dad types like that and I dont care. as long as hes happy and feels young again he can do it. So  yall get ova it, its only a style of writing. This isnt English class.
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QUOTE(pastellove_ @ Sep 29 2005, 10:39 PM)
why dont people understand..
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QUOTE(PinkTrash @ Sep 29 2005, 10:29 PM)
Why does it matter if she's lieing about her age or not anyway? It wouldn't matter in anyway.. she's not gaining anything. Atleast in my point of view she isn't..
Also, you can't say she finished high school. Afterall you guys 'theorized' that she had her daughter at 15, and maybe she dropped out. Stop assuming.
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Stop assuming? Aren't you assuming that she's telling the truth? As far as I'm concern, we're all assuming and a lot of assumptions have to be made since the topic starter haven't told us much about the situation. I can agree that it [grammar problem] doesn't really matter, but many of us are just uncomfortable with a 30 year-old writing like that, and members have a right to "speak" their minds so long as it doesn't involve bashing and/or breaking the rules. Nothing more, nothing less.

A lot of times, criticism comes along with advice and the advice seeker has to deal with that. In this situation, I feel that if she is to tell her daugher who she can and cannot date the mother has to be mature and serious manner. That's why I said I was uncomfortable about this whole thing. If the daughter is willful enough, she will do as she likes even if the mother protests against it. I can't just imagine the daughter saying "I'm different from you and I won't make the same mistake". Why would she be different? Because the child may think she's more mature than her mother. Psychologically, it happens. We always hear kids say "I'm NOT LIKE YOU" when they get into arguments with their parents.

Yes, in my opinion, how a person type/write—for the most part, reflect a sense of maturity, respect for others and responsibily. If you don't agree, that's fine, but don't tell me what I can and cannot say to the topic starter because I'm not breaking any rules.

I don't feel like I'm wasting my time posting this either. If I had felt that, I wouldn't be posting.

To the topic starter, I apologize for offending you. I know you're in a tough situation with figuring out what's right for your daughter, but I wanted to voice that you must keep in perspective who you're asking for advice from. If you want to be "kewl" and type like a kid, go for it, but I fear the responses you get will be from kids who will most likely give a biased advice and defend your daughter. In any case, good luck with her.
 

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crazi_in_love_08   should i let my daughter go out ?   Sep 28 2005, 04:16 PM
PreludeTears   QUOTE(crazi_in_love_08 @ Sep 28 2005, 2:16 PM...   Sep 28 2005, 04:20 PM
tweeak   Why do I get the impression that this is a "h...   Sep 28 2005, 04:21 PM
PreludeTears   im 16, 17 on March Mrs. But I must slightly agree...   Sep 28 2005, 04:24 PM
celticsluvr   QUOTE(tweeak @ Sep 28 2005, 4:21 PM)Why do I ...   Sep 29 2005, 06:28 PM
Kristinaa   QUOTE(celticsluvr @ Sep 29 2005, 6:28 PM)i ag...   Sep 29 2005, 06:30 PM
crazi_in_love_08   like i said b4 this is my daughters username.. Im ...   Sep 28 2005, 04:24 PM
ursedonah   QUOTE(crazi_in_love_08 @ Sep 28 2005, 4:24 PM...   Sep 28 2005, 05:03 PM
tweeak   If you're 30, why do you have a 15 year old da...   Sep 28 2005, 04:37 PM
lbjshaq2345   QUOTE(tweeak @ Sep 28 2005, 5:37 PM)If you...   Sep 28 2005, 06:06 PM
Kristinaa   QUOTE(lbjshaq2345 @ Sep 28 2005, 6:06 PM)shut...   Sep 28 2005, 06:09 PM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(lbjshaq2345 @ Sep 28 2005, 6:06 PM)shut...   Sep 28 2005, 06:31 PM
anubis   QUOTE(lbjshaq2345 @ Sep 28 2005, 5:06 PM)shut...   Oct 2 2005, 05:00 PM
OhXiet_ItzDonnA   Well, if you trust her, you should let her go. But...   Sep 28 2005, 04:49 PM
L!ckitySplit   haha, well then....you dont type like a mom, at al...   Sep 28 2005, 04:51 PM
Azn Kid from NY   ..i think if that guys 18, and he has any sexual r...   Sep 28 2005, 05:17 PM
Spirited Away   Whaaat? Er. I'm just a little uncomfortable ...   Sep 28 2005, 05:35 PM
mipadi   Well, if he's really "kewl" than yea...   Sep 28 2005, 07:28 PM
_sarcastic_   woa woa you can't be 30... your daughter's...   Sep 28 2005, 05:44 PM
RiC3xBoy   Intersting, you are 30, and you have a 15 year old...   Sep 28 2005, 05:47 PM
silver rain   Yeah, somehow, I don't believe that you're...   Sep 28 2005, 05:48 PM
Kristinaa   A. I highly doubt you are 30. B. If a 30 year old...   Sep 28 2005, 05:49 PM
Azn Kid from NY   QUOTEshut the f**k up tweeak this aint grammar sch...   Sep 28 2005, 06:19 PM
yummy_delight   1. I don't think you're 30 YOU ARE NOT 30....   Sep 28 2005, 06:19 PM
aznxdreamer   welcome to "you must have perfect grammar and...   Sep 28 2005, 06:21 PM
mzkandi   Ok, if you dont believe its her then dont post in ...   Sep 28 2005, 06:46 PM
mzkandi   Before I start verbal warning people, let me repea...   Sep 29 2005, 06:30 PM
pastellove_   QUOTE(mzkandi @ Sep 28 2005, 3:46 PM)Ok, if y...   Sep 29 2005, 10:39 PM
shadkitty   Alright then...I'm 20 going on 21. I've go...   Sep 28 2005, 07:10 PM
c0cONuTTeR   My dad talks illiterate. I'm like, dad please ...   Sep 28 2005, 08:18 PM
L!ckitySplit   maybe! maybe! she is the mother! and, ...   Sep 28 2005, 08:21 PM
Hiphop d[-_-]b   You should let her. Trust her a little, she'll...   Sep 28 2005, 10:10 PM
peggysturr   Seriously, I am almost sure that you are lying. Un...   Sep 28 2005, 10:37 PM
Blue-Chan   Well, talk to her. Even if she thinks it's goi...   Sep 28 2005, 10:54 PM
kpgrl4eva   ...yea, sure, let "her" go out.   Sep 28 2005, 11:11 PM
salcha   I wonder what your daughter will say when she sees...   Sep 29 2005, 12:13 AM
mouse_3k   wow ok everyone chill. It dont matter how she type...   Sep 29 2005, 10:33 AM
x____duckii   QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 29 2005, 11:33 AM)So  ya...   Oct 1 2005, 11:43 PM
grrfield   QUOTE(x____duckii @ Oct 1 2005, 11:43 PM) Tha...   Oct 2 2005, 01:51 AM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(grrfield @ Oct 2 2005, 1:51 AM)who care...   Oct 2 2005, 09:47 AM
crazi_in_love_08   ok. I will type right ... just for you guys who do...   Sep 29 2005, 04:05 PM
aznxdreamer   hey people, shush with thte grammar and typing and...   Sep 29 2005, 04:55 PM
xxaznxgurlxx   As all the other people have said ; you don't ...   Sep 29 2005, 05:09 PM
CrazayChristian   Bull shit you're 30, no 30 year old types like...   Sep 29 2005, 05:59 PM
Azn Kid from NY   ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ in the year 2000 she was only 25 years o...   Sep 29 2005, 06:14 PM
PinkTrash   Why does it matter if she's lieing about her a...   Sep 29 2005, 10:29 PM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 29 2005, 10:33 AM)wow ok...   Sep 30 2005, 09:10 AM
xnofearx   I just checked her profile, she's only 15...   Sep 30 2005, 09:15 AM
Spirited Away   because she's using her daughter's account...   Sep 30 2005, 09:17 AM
K!$$   ^ ^ ^ Hear, hear.   Sep 30 2005, 10:32 AM
nsmx1korean   i hate parents that tell there kids that they cant...   Oct 1 2005, 07:02 PM
kodomo_ja_nai   give your daughter advice about dating so that she...   Oct 1 2005, 09:35 PM
Spirited Away   ^ my parents told me those things and did some cra...   Oct 1 2005, 09:50 PM
yanners   so lets just say that what you're saying is al...   Oct 1 2005, 11:08 PM
bad_girl   yeah you should. i mean, she's 15, i think she...   Oct 1 2005, 11:44 PM
tequila_sky   wow I also got the vibe that this was not a 15 yr ...   Oct 2 2005, 10:26 AM
andromeda_90   I don't think so She might say, "oh you...   Oct 2 2005, 06:10 PM
x3chrissyx3   Well, I don't have any children yet, but I...   Oct 2 2005, 06:44 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(x3chrissyx3 @ Oct 2 2005, 7:44 PM)(By t...   Oct 4 2005, 08:55 AM
toodlepops.   If I was a 30 year old mom with a 15-year old daug...   Oct 4 2005, 05:33 AM
Weird addiction   FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, QUIT JUDGING HER AND GIVE HER...   Oct 4 2005, 12:36 PM
xcaitlinx   wow...a lot of people on cB have issues. "OMG...   Oct 4 2005, 01:06 PM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Oct 4 2005, 1:06 PM)wow...a...   Oct 4 2005, 06:41 PM
tweeak   Oh honestly, bitching at people by saying the same...   Oct 4 2005, 09:47 PM
Weird addiction   Fae, she asked if she should let her daughter go o...   Oct 5 2005, 08:52 AM
Spirited Away   sandra, i answered and added my concern and said t...   Oct 5 2005, 09:06 AM
BarreL   i think this is a big fake personally . lots and l...   Oct 5 2005, 09:02 AM
Weird addiction   Most of the time, but there are times when it isn...   Oct 5 2005, 09:35 AM
Spirited Away   Whether it's needed is situational. In this ca...   Oct 5 2005, 02:54 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   Notice how this "arent" hasn't respo...   Oct 6 2005, 07:21 PM
mzkandi   Ok, I'm closing this. Yes, the whole typing is...   Oct 6 2005, 07:24 PM


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