should i let my daughter go out ? |
should i let my daughter go out ? |
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ok well my daughter is 15 n this guy that asked her to go see a movie is 18 , they have a class together in school. i met him yesterday n he seems like a pretty kewl kid. i trust my daughter to not do sumthing stupid, but i dont think i trust him all the way.. what should i do ?? btw this is her account .. im just tryin to get advice from u guys
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![]() lick me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 ![]() |
Why does it matter if she's lieing about her age or not anyway? It wouldn't matter in anyway.. she's not gaining anything. Atleast in my point of view she isn't..
Also, you can't say she finished high school. Afterall you guys 'theorized' that she had her daughter at 15, and maybe she dropped out. Stop assuming.. And no. If I were you, I wouldnt let my daughter date the guy. Since you did have your daughter at 15[?] and made the same mistake as her[?] just tell her about your experience. Or if thats not true.. then just make up a story =) but get it through thats it not good for her to date an 18 year old. Sure, a friendly hang outs here and there but make sure nothing serious happends. |
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![]() Quand j'étais jeune... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 ![]() |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 29 2005, 10:33 AM) wow ok everyone chill. It dont matter how she types, she needs advice. instead of wasting all your time on complaining and b!tching on how she types, why dont you actually help her damn. my dad types like that and I dont care. as long as hes happy and feels young again he can do it. So yall get ova it, its only a style of writing. This isnt English class. QUOTE(pastellove_ @ Sep 29 2005, 10:39 PM) QUOTE(PinkTrash @ Sep 29 2005, 10:29 PM) Why does it matter if she's lieing about her age or not anyway? It wouldn't matter in anyway.. she's not gaining anything. Atleast in my point of view she isn't.. Also, you can't say she finished high school. Afterall you guys 'theorized' that she had her daughter at 15, and maybe she dropped out. Stop assuming. Stop assuming? Aren't you assuming that she's telling the truth? As far as I'm concern, we're all assuming and a lot of assumptions have to be made since the topic starter haven't told us much about the situation. I can agree that it [grammar problem] doesn't really matter, but many of us are just uncomfortable with a 30 year-old writing like that, and members have a right to "speak" their minds so long as it doesn't involve bashing and/or breaking the rules. Nothing more, nothing less. A lot of times, criticism comes along with advice and the advice seeker has to deal with that. In this situation, I feel that if she is to tell her daugher who she can and cannot date the mother has to be mature and serious manner. That's why I said I was uncomfortable about this whole thing. If the daughter is willful enough, she will do as she likes even if the mother protests against it. I can't just imagine the daughter saying "I'm different from you and I won't make the same mistake". Why would she be different? Because the child may think she's more mature than her mother. Psychologically, it happens. We always hear kids say "I'm NOT LIKE YOU" when they get into arguments with their parents. Yes, in my opinion, how a person type/write—for the most part, reflect a sense of maturity, respect for others and responsibily. If you don't agree, that's fine, but don't tell me what I can and cannot say to the topic starter because I'm not breaking any rules. I don't feel like I'm wasting my time posting this either. If I had felt that, I wouldn't be posting. To the topic starter, I apologize for offending you. I know you're in a tough situation with figuring out what's right for your daughter, but I wanted to voice that you must keep in perspective who you're asking for advice from. If you want to be "kewl" and type like a kid, go for it, but I fear the responses you get will be from kids who will most likely give a biased advice and defend your daughter. In any case, good luck with her. |
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