im so sicKK.... |
im so sicKK.... |
Sep 28 2005, 08:21 AM
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of being the only one who cares about my best friend and im sick of being the only one who's running to her for help or just to cheer her up when she needs it...i hate it when she underestimates me and she's so damn proud of herself i cant take it anymore....i feel like crying and i feel like punching something but i've through that i've done stupid things just cause i was ignored and go pushed away from a group of friends....i dont wanna go through that phase(sp?) again....she thinks she's got the best thing in life and stuff arghhh it hurts me just to be with her....i cant stand it anymore....
urghhhhhhh has anyone been in this similiar(sp?) situation? what should i do?should i ditched her for good>? im so pissed of like when i think back i've wasted freaking money to call her and be there u know? and she never ever once even sms-ed me and call me(not even an sms so why could she bother 2 call? to know if im alright or how im doing i've got to do all of it...like care for her be there and i even dropped everything and asked my sis 2 send me to her house in the middle of the night just to be there for her when she's fighting with her bf....i feel so used and i feel like crying she uses my stuff and never give them back and sometimes when i ask for it back she like oh i dont really need it anyway she never really care about how i feel and it hurts me so much that i do appericiates her she takes everything for granted i just wish so much that she's different and that maybe she;'ll understands me but i donno sometimes i wish she could be more nice and appericiates me and stuff! i think this is just a vent but replies are really welcomed... =( i think i need help with this???please if anyone got any advice for me? |
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Sep 28 2005, 08:51 AM
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you shouldn't have to go through that sweets...
just tell her what you said here. tell her how it makes you feel and how completely unfair it is. she needs to understand that if she doesn't try to care about anyone but herself, she's going to be the only one who cares about herself. you seriously do not need "friends" like that. |
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endura88 im so sicKK.... Sep 28 2005, 08:21 AM
OhXiet_ItzDonnA ^Yeah like she said. You can tell her how you feel... Sep 28 2005, 03:10 PM
endura88 thankx guys 4 the replies i donno i've been fr... Sep 29 2005, 02:03 AM
highly_evolved your only hurting youself in this stituation and i... Sep 29 2005, 05:06 AM
angel_revelation why do you consider her your best friend? she see... Sep 30 2005, 07:38 PM
yummy_delight Obviously, this is not a healthy relationship.
If... Sep 30 2005, 09:18 PM
xxbebot QUOTE(endura88 @ Sep 28 2005, 8:21 AM)of bein... Oct 1 2005, 12:11 AM
nsmx1korean u dont need friends like that, just go on Oct 1 2005, 06:57 PM![]() ![]() |