YOUR definition of true love, ..obvious |
 Jan 14 2005, 10:33 PM
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Alternativemado  Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,401  |
I was thinking and i was just curious what you guys thought love means or what love is. Do we naturally love or do we learn to love?
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Sep 27 2005, 06:20 AM
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In response to the recent topic of true love, I want to see what people's definitions of true love are. Mine is:
First of all, you have to be able to love yourself before you love anyone else, that is what I think. People have to be content with themselves before they can be content being with another human being. People without self-confidence most likely end up being DEPENDENT on the other person. They often mistake it that dependency for love when it's not. You should never have to say "I need this person". Need is a dependent word and there is no place for that in true love. This also leads to people who love only because it gives them an identity. These people say things like "What am I without them?" They're only looking for relationship because it gives them a place to be and an identity to assume. These people go crazy when someone leaves them; they start losing all senses of themselves; they lose all track of their lives. They instantly seek out any person who would take them. This isn't true love. My second point has to do with true love. When you truly love someone, you must be able to do that even when you're not with them. Just because someone decided not to be with you, it shouldn't take away the love you have for that person. And that love should always be there, forever. You have to be able to look back at that person after 10 years of no contact and still say you love them. Sure they may have changed but deep down they're the same person and if you truly love them, that's what you love, not the outer layer. Lastly, true love is by CHOICE. Falling in love isn't true love because it's not something you wanted to happen. If you can fall into love you can fall out of love. At first things may seem like love but it doesn't really develop until you've known that person very well. After you've seen all their faults, you can choose to love them or not and that's when it counts. You choose love, love doesn't choose you. Yeah it's kinda long and I don't expect anyone to read it but I'll read all of yours cause I'm like that. |
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Alternativemado YOUR definition of true love Jan 14 2005, 10:33 PM
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they'll... Jan 15 2005, 02:05 AM yanners love for most of us teens is obsession. it's ... Jan 15 2005, 03:13 AM salcha love--sacraficing your life for the person you lov... Jan 16 2005, 02:42 AM smile4me i know a person who doesn't believe in love. s... Mar 26 2005, 05:09 PM Spirited Away QUOTE(smile4me @ Mar 26 2005, 5:09 PM)i know ... Mar 26 2005, 05:16 PM smile4me QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Mar 26 2005, 5:16 PM)Sh... Mar 26 2005, 05:20 PM starfaerie06 I don't think love is describable because it... Jan 16 2005, 11:28 AM SkaironFrenzy Love isnt an feeling but with action......... Jan 16 2005, 04:29 PM iiiiiiiYON SOO MANY DEFINITIONZ FOR LOVE... FOR MANY TRANSLAT... Jan 17 2005, 02:09 AM bad_girl u learn to love.
QUOTElove--sacraficing your life... Jan 17 2005, 06:44 AM Frankie i think that we naturally love. love it weird, i d... Jan 17 2005, 10:27 AM sammehmyst Love is kind of undescribable, in my opinion.
I ju... Jan 17 2005, 11:39 AM sadolakced acid love is evol, backwards.
it's the opposite ... Jan 17 2005, 01:54 PM x_far_x You guys might think this is cheesy, but I was pla... Jan 17 2005, 02:14 PM avalon* i think love means when you are willing to sacrifi... Jan 17 2005, 02:49 PM salcha QUOTE(allthatglitterss @ Jan 17 2005, 2:49 PM... Jan 18 2005, 02:30 AM Chaos13 love:
1. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of aff... Jan 17 2005, 02:55 PM Kriegsgefangene Love is shoveled into three different messes.
O... Jan 17 2005, 05:22 PM Weird addiction Wierd, ive claimed to be in love many times but i ... Jan 18 2005, 11:54 AM Teesa I think we love naturally..like ever since we are ... Jan 19 2005, 06:48 PM sweetxsimplicity Well, you can love naturally and just learn to lov... Jan 20 2005, 01:15 AM Xprezsion I think love is when you would do anyone for that ... Jan 23 2005, 04:28 PM Xprezsion I think love is when you would do anyone for that ... Jan 23 2005, 04:28 PM mariojuric Hey
I never thought of Love as something that hap... Mar 23 2005, 09:54 AM ohh_so_elektrikk<3 there have been too many times i thought i loved s... Mar 25 2005, 04:38 PM xxtaintedlips I think love is somthing like nothing else in the ... Mar 25 2005, 04:43 PM xxtaintedlips as for learning love and being born with it....i t... Mar 25 2005, 04:46 PM Angel_Cece love: strong affection for another arising out of ... Mar 25 2005, 04:48 PM BrandonSaunders I'll let all of yous know when I get married. Mar 25 2005, 04:52 PM nicky04033 to me, love comes naturally....... how can we lear... Mar 27 2005, 11:06 PM Sumiaki Love is being able to fart in front of your loved ... Mar 28 2005, 01:47 AM xXirockhardXx QUOTE(Sumiaki @ Mar 27 2005, 10:47 PM)Love is... Mar 28 2005, 01:51 AM ryfitaDF you're not supposed to be able to describe lov... Mar 30 2005, 02:22 PM AngelTears Love isnt anything..
I mean it cant be defined be... Mar 30 2005, 04:55 PM iNyCxShoRT There is no real defination of love you can only f... Apr 30 2005, 07:13 PM x3__iGiVEup to me; love is when you want the best for that per... Apr 30 2005, 10:35 PM PinkTrash for me?a lover-- someone who unconditionally cares... Apr 30 2005, 10:49 PM ROARxD love is just too strong
we think we love but we on... Apr 30 2005, 11:00 PM Domonic Everyone has a different perception of "love.... May 1 2005, 09:18 AM Spirited Away QUOTE(Domonic @ May 1 2005, 9:18 AM)Everyone ... May 1 2005, 10:45 AM xtreme_<3 i wasn't sure if this was supposed to go in de... Aug 9 2005, 01:01 AM RiC3xBoy My definition would be to like something so strong... Aug 9 2005, 01:19 AM _sarcastic_ isn't there a topic on this before? Aug 9 2005, 08:37 AM Lo Mein ^ yeah i've seen it but when i tried to search... Aug 9 2005, 10:57 AM Spirited Away http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...&hl=d... Aug 9 2005, 11:09 AM Paradox of Life Eh.. my definition of love is compatibility betwee... Aug 9 2005, 12:38 PM xtreme_<3 ok, so the title of the topic is the same but that... Aug 9 2005, 10:14 PM Spirited Away QUOTE(xtreme_<3 @ Aug 9 2005, 10:14 PM)ok,... Aug 10 2005, 02:52 PM RupertGrintluvr15 When you think about someone Night and Day
When yo... Aug 9 2005, 11:11 PM Elvis_IzBack QUOTE(RupertGrintluvr15 @ Aug 10 2005, 12:11 ... Aug 10 2005, 02:58 PM Spirited Away QUOTE(Elvis_IzBack @ Aug 10 2005, 2:58 PM)See... Aug 10 2005, 02:59 PM Hell-Rell Basically
LOVE:
It`s a short word, easy 2 spe... Aug 10 2005, 03:33 PM mishyerr There is no true definition of love. I just think ... Aug 10 2005, 07:07 PM celticsluvr "IF YOU REALLY LOVE SOMETHING LET IT GO, IF I... Aug 10 2005, 07:54 PM squashie 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is patient, love is kin... Aug 31 2005, 10:57 PM Aamir Just give a one liner about what you think LOVE is... Sep 1 2005, 02:47 AM niez_cho I guess you're new to CB, right?
In here, we t... Sep 1 2005, 03:06 AM iNyCxShoRT I think these definitions of love are great, but t... Sep 1 2005, 10:51 AM _sarcastic_ i think there's a topic on this but i might be... Sep 27 2005, 07:45 PM FREEcandies Eeek...could I sworn I tried searching. Hope I... Sep 27 2005, 08:19 PM K!$$ ^ I sure hope not. I "love" what you de... Sep 30 2005, 11:07 AM airam conan o brien is true love Sep 30 2005, 05:32 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b To me, my defintion [ sort of ]
Love cannot be de... Sep 30 2005, 05:46 PM FREEcandies QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Sep... Oct 1 2005, 01:58 PM Hiphop d[-_-]b QUOTE(FREEcandies @ Oct 1 2005, 11:58 AM)I gu... Oct 1 2005, 07:05 PM jennypie True love is something that makes two people think... Sep 30 2005, 06:08 PM airam i think tommy has some more spying to do on mommy ... Sep 30 2005, 06:15 PM SSJ Kenshin Love is finding the counterpoint ot one's soul... Oct 1 2005, 01:22 PM WindSorcerous Love is the greatest magickal and spiritual power ... Oct 1 2005, 01:44 PM jeanna Nine Ways to Tell if Your Love Is Real
You feel ... Oct 1 2005, 01:53 PM brandon32490 Yeah, basically love is an experience, not a defin... Oct 1 2005, 03:05 PM nsmx1korean lol there really is no definition Oct 1 2005, 06:54 PM xl0stxThoughtx True love is your soul's recognition of its co... Oct 1 2005, 10:50 PM rinchan089 QUOTE(xl0stxThoughtx @ Oct 1 2005, 10:50 PM)T... Oct 2 2005, 02:23 PM heyyeh love, is one of those things that you could argue ... Oct 5 2005, 08:07 PM mzkandi Topics Merged. Oct 5 2005, 08:13 PM |
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