my boyfriend keeps hurting., my boy is hurting Options

[xbby_charmz]

So not saying that my boyfriend is sad, or saying that he like hits me or shit like that.

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months now he tells me he doesnt love me any more then 4 days later he tells me he needs me and misses me ofcoarse i go back cause i love, care about him. 3 weeks later he tells me again he doesnt love me what do i do. he didnt tell me in person its in his profile for aim not sure if everybody knoes what that is....it hurts badly how me and him cant talk what do i do? i really need help and the last time when we broke up when he first said he didnt love me i had to sort a like call him everyday for 3 days till i got to him by blocking my number just to see what is going on and it sucks ass. (mind my launguage)

[FREEcandies]

If you think breaking up a 5 months relationship is hard, think about 3 years, 5 years, 7 years, and who knows how long the longest breakup has been. I'm not saying that your relationship doesn't mean as much, but it helps to know that there are so many other people there having it much worse than you. It's hard to be rejected, people don't like to feel that way and they try everything to be accepted again. Stop wasting your energy. Move forward, don't move backward. Don't talk to him, keep talking to us, and talk to your pillow (aka cry).

My thoughts: Naturally, when someone leaves you, you feel as if you've been rejected. You have been. And it doesn't really matter what the reasons are, you're going to feel terrible. Broken-hearted. Really, it seems like the whole world is falling apart right now but it's not. It's your heart that's falling apart and that's understandable. Realize though that time doesn't wait for anybody. So don't stand there and stare; pick up the pieces of your heart and run after it. You will have the chance to make it whole again later. Smile. Research has shown that physiology can lead psychology (your body can affect your mind)