who usually ends a relationship, the guy or the the girl? |
 Aug 18 2005, 01:06 PM
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just wondering
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Sep 23 2005, 07:05 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
What Chii said is true. Most guys don't want to be labelled as the "dumper" who broke the girl's heart. They'd rather have the girl break it off with them because it seemed to be the gentlemen thing to do, not breaking the girl's heart.
From my experience, it was the guy who broke it off. However, when I asked him about why, he said that he had really wanted me to break it off with him, so that's why he's been ignoring my IM's and phone calls, and acting indifferent towards me at school. He said that if I had broke it off instead of him, I wouldn't be as hurt, and we might still have a chance to be friends. I suppose in a sense it is true... From the people at my school, it is the guys who end the relationship contrary to what everybody has said here. Or maybe that's cuz the girls at my school are very very clingy, including me =P |
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lexaa621 who usually ends a relationship Aug 18 2005, 01:06 PM
Hell-Rell Mutual, it feels really werid letting someone go s... Aug 18 2005, 01:11 PM pyrochick19770 I dunno it depends.
But when it comes to me & ... Aug 18 2005, 01:16 PM pink_is_love in my friends // my own experiences, most of the t... Aug 18 2005, 02:54 PM pawprints2570 it's kinda like the "would you rather be ... Aug 18 2005, 03:13 PM aera ^yeah what she said. probably the girl. Aug 18 2005, 03:47 PM lexaa621 i'm not saying which you'd prefer... i... Aug 18 2005, 04:03 PM SpedMonkee this really, to me atleast, depends on ur age. mos... Aug 18 2005, 04:09 PM Lo Mein whoever loses intrest first Aug 18 2005, 04:19 PM sheepy ^ good answer
it really all depends Aug 18 2005, 04:38 PM silver rain It really depends. In my previous relationship, he... Aug 18 2005, 04:44 PM tetrastar From my friends' experiences (because I don... Aug 18 2005, 05:02 PM xbby_charmz through my experience its the girl Aug 18 2005, 07:23 PM azn_r4pf4n the girl. i always hear stuff of girls missing a g... Aug 18 2005, 07:52 PM xbby_charmz ^ thats probably me right there Aug 18 2005, 07:53 PM chickattracter its usually the girl bc i like commitment like lon... Aug 18 2005, 08:01 PM icy_wonderland i can never end things. i keep thinking that the b... Aug 18 2005, 09:04 PM LittleLulu ok its weird. in my frist relationship i ended it.... Aug 18 2005, 09:23 PM OhXiet_ItzDonnA To me, the guys break up with me but sometimes I b... Aug 18 2005, 09:25 PM dao i think guy because i see alot of girls are clingy... Aug 19 2005, 07:24 PM latinprep12 ^ yup i agree look at notebook when they guy was t... Aug 19 2005, 09:06 PM PinkTrash mutual I guess, the relationship just has to end..... Aug 19 2005, 11:26 PM Chii girls do.
guys usually want the girl to break up ... Aug 19 2005, 11:29 PM shannoniwamoto girls, i agree with chii about the "gentlemen... Aug 20 2005, 02:24 AM electric shock I think it depends, but from experience, it's ... Aug 20 2005, 02:51 AM stephinika ^^
i'd have to agree. it depends but from what... Aug 20 2005, 03:04 AM
latinprep12 QUOTE(stephinika @ Aug 20 2005, 4:04 AM)^^
i... Aug 20 2005, 03:47 AM short_stop08 Down here the girl's gonna dump the guy or the... Aug 20 2005, 07:13 AM Paradox of Life Hm. Girls have this thing where they think they... Aug 20 2005, 08:44 AM ichigofan I think that usually the girl is the dumper but I ... Aug 23 2005, 04:46 PM xxaznxgurlxx I think usually boys do the ending. They can flirt... Aug 23 2005, 05:00 PM SkaironFrenzy The GIRL!!! I think that is more commo... Aug 23 2005, 07:31 PM angel_revelation it can go both ways... there isn't really an ... Aug 24 2005, 12:26 AM kpx_danny i wud say the guy... Aug 24 2005, 08:59 PM suddenly she from what i've seen, the girl usually ends it.... Sep 7 2005, 08:16 PM yuna* oh I'd like to feel mean breaking somebody... Sep 9 2005, 09:47 PM xlilmissqx Well, you can't say boy or girl, because every... Sep 10 2005, 01:38 AM danielle_x3 it depends. but in my case, the girl dumps the guy... Sep 10 2005, 11:51 AM WindSorcerous From what I've heard, the girl dumps the guy b... Sep 10 2005, 11:57 AM Blue-Chan It really depend son who you are.
But I think the ... Sep 10 2005, 02:33 PM kazukizaki from most relationships i know, the girl breaks up... Sep 18 2005, 08:07 PM samsam5886 THIS IS SO TRUE!!! its sad... the majo... Sep 19 2005, 08:32 PM Levy2k6 i usualy see alot of mutual break ups.. my gf says... Sep 19 2005, 09:28 PM Claudel uhm yeah it depends, in my case only 1 girl ended ... Sep 20 2005, 05:49 PM L!ckitySplit Guys let the girl dump them most of the time Sep 20 2005, 05:57 PM Spiritual Winged Aura I think, most girls dump the guys. Sep 21 2005, 11:47 PM pastellove_ from most of my observations..
guys break it up wh... Sep 23 2005, 11:21 PM creamyxlicious They say the better you know a person,
the better ... Sep 24 2005, 05:57 PM airam god does!!! duh! Oct 4 2005, 08:13 PM alannajean it honestly just depends. you aren't going to ... Oct 4 2005, 10:35 PM iNyCxShoRT Its definately the girls, what a disgrace it would... Oct 5 2005, 12:11 PM dahoonpride i think the more emotional girls usually tends to ... Oct 6 2005, 04:55 PM PreludeTears God i hate it when the girl dumps the guy then the... Oct 6 2005, 04:59 PM tequila_sky Ummm...I have no idea I think both. I have had my ... Oct 7 2005, 01:55 PM broken_lance l go for the girl dump the guy
its a good thing t... Oct 8 2005, 10:06 AM Bridget_rules_4eva both can end the relatioship. Oct 8 2005, 10:34 AM Intercourse. Uhm guy dumps the girl or its a mutual breakup. Bu... Mar 20 2007, 10:25 PM Uronacid GUY GUY GUY GUY... we are heartless and cruel. :[ Mar 20 2007, 10:32 PM mouse_3k depends on the situation. I had guys break up wit ... Mar 21 2007, 07:24 AM SimplicityGirl For me the guy broke up with me.
However, I have s... Mar 22 2007, 11:43 AM yobaka3 Girl dumps the guy because guys rather be in a rel... Jun 18 2007, 11:53 PM Moderator For me. I've ended most of my relationships al... Jun 19 2007, 12:03 AM Elba The guys always leave me
I don't know why? I... Jun 19 2007, 12:10 AM th5418 QUOTE(Elba @ Jun 19 2007, 12:10 AM) The g... Jun 19 2007, 12:49 AM UniversalRoyalty It depends.
For me personally, I've been dump... Jun 19 2007, 03:30 AM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX In my school the guys usually the dumper and the g... Jun 19 2007, 12:21 PM JustAnotherTeenageLoser Well...for me, I've always been the one to dum... Jun 19 2007, 12:25 PM lostgrl16 ive been the dumpee and the dumper lol Jul 29 2007, 04:39 PM 31miracles from experience, girls dump guys, I've been du... Jul 30 2007, 10:57 PM idalisa Guy dumps the girl?
i dont know really, both can... Aug 2 2007, 03:19 PM emazing I've done most of the dumping.
QUOTEfrom expe... Aug 2 2007, 06:21 PM Petrified Doesn't matter. Aug 7 2007, 06:22 PM MaAssIsWOW I end it, whether I'm in the relationship or n... Aug 10 2007, 02:01 AM salcha4u ^ Well, there goes the rest of his relationships..... Aug 10 2007, 10:40 AM stolen Yeah who ever gets sick of the other. Aug 10 2007, 02:38 PM Claudel A strong word, starts with A ending with O :) Aug 10 2007, 07:50 PM doiink daaaaaaamn, girls are so vicious. ironic how so ma... Aug 14 2007, 11:51 AM xcorphz Here in our place mostly it's the girl that sh... Aug 14 2007, 03:34 PM katssso Mostly the girls, but in cases guys too. Sep 22 2007, 11:50 PM Girthy first was mutual.
seconds was on and off for a wh... Sep 23 2007, 08:55 PM wreckless QUOTE(Girthy @ Sep 23 2007, 06:55 PM) fir... Sep 23 2007, 11:21 PM Girthy am i suppose to tell you everything?
i dont even ... Sep 23 2007, 11:34 PM wreckless thats cold as hell, fuck I FORGOT I BLOCKED YOU TH... Sep 23 2007, 11:41 PM Girthy OH PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEE.
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fuck off Sep 23 2007, 11:52 PM jammylise Girls! Oct 3 2007, 03:14 AM KawaiiLove The one who doesn't want to be in the relation... Oct 3 2007, 03:34 PM justdecent it depends.. but usually for me, it's mutual Oct 4 2007, 02:09 PM tungmyBANANA It depends. i've had 4 ex's. and i always ... Oct 4 2007, 03:11 PM |
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