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 Sep 23 2005, 05:30 PM
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I'm going to start this by saying that I am not a "noob" or whatever...I just want to protect my identity...please mods, don't out me...
I just broke up with my boyfriend a few hours ago...it was a really messy break up. He practically went crazy, it scared the hell out of me...I don't want to get too personal...but he committed a crime against me... He keeps hinting suicide. He calls nonstop and told me to go to his place tomorrow to pick up my things...I don't want to go to his house again because I'm afraid that he might commit that crime again. He didn't finish it because during it, I struggled and told him to stop and to let me go. He only let me go because the doorbell rang and he thought it was his little brother and I told him I'd see him tomorrow. I thank God because I believe that it was a Jehovah's Witness that rang the bell. He keeps saying things like "I'm not sure if I'm going to be there" (when I (me) pick up my things) and he said that he'll never see me again...and the only reason he wants me to pick up my things tomorrow is so he can get on with it... I'm getting really off topic and personal so I'll just ask a simple question...if my ex boyfriend commits suicide...will it be my fault? I told him that there is life after me and that he owes it to me to move on with his life...and find someone else. |
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Sep 23 2005, 06:58 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Nope, it won't be your fault. You might feel like it's your fault if you're emotional, but no it won't be.
And you need to tell him to calm down, and that nothing he do will change your mind. You have to cut it clean with him...don't ever leave anything dangling or give false hope, because usually that turns really nasty and messy. |
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scared... I don't know what to do... Sep 23 2005, 05:30 PM
Kristinaa It can't be your fault. He's the one that ... Sep 23 2005, 05:35 PM scared... Thanks for replying...right now he's just real... Sep 23 2005, 05:39 PM Kristinaa No problem
He just kept going on and on about ... Sep 23 2005, 05:45 PM scared... I kind of think that my ex won't have the guts... Sep 23 2005, 05:49 PM iNyCxShoRT Its not your fault. He's probably having emoti... Sep 23 2005, 05:53 PM andromeda_90 I never experienced that kind of thin but it sound... Sep 23 2005, 06:35 PM Azn Kid from NY LOL @ this girl being more worried if it will be h... Sep 23 2005, 06:52 PM
scared... ^I have told him, my friend advised to to be blunt... Sep 23 2005, 06:59 PM Kristinaa QUOTE(scared... @ Sep 23 2005, 6:59 PM)Excuse... Sep 23 2005, 10:05 PM |
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