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 Sep 23 2005, 05:30 PM
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I'm going to start this by saying that I am not a "noob" or whatever...I just want to protect my identity...please mods, don't out me...
I just broke up with my boyfriend a few hours ago...it was a really messy break up. He practically went crazy, it scared the hell out of me...I don't want to get too personal...but he committed a crime against me... He keeps hinting suicide. He calls nonstop and told me to go to his place tomorrow to pick up my things...I don't want to go to his house again because I'm afraid that he might commit that crime again. He didn't finish it because during it, I struggled and told him to stop and to let me go. He only let me go because the doorbell rang and he thought it was his little brother and I told him I'd see him tomorrow. I thank God because I believe that it was a Jehovah's Witness that rang the bell. He keeps saying things like "I'm not sure if I'm going to be there" (when I (me) pick up my things) and he said that he'll never see me again...and the only reason he wants me to pick up my things tomorrow is so he can get on with it... I'm getting really off topic and personal so I'll just ask a simple question...if my ex boyfriend commits suicide...will it be my fault? I told him that there is life after me and that he owes it to me to move on with his life...and find someone else. |
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Sep 23 2005, 05:45 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
No problem
 He just kept going on and on about it..and.. You see i'm a very down to earth person. I say what I think..and I definately said what I was thinking. I told him that I was breaking up with him because there were "rumors" [which turned out to be true] that he was cheating. This sounds so middle school..yes..but it's true.Anyways. I told him....that I wanted to break up. Before I actually said that though he was on the phone with ME and the cheating girl. I knew he was caused he called me Lauren, the girl, and not Kristina, my name. So..I said I want to break up. Apparently he couldn't make up his mind, so, I made up mine. And he just went on for about it..but..no offense [to you..just in case of whatever]..but I knew he didn't have the "guts" for it... After that night he just..kinda..ignored me..and I did the same...It was better that we did. And here we are in High School and he's had this other girlfriend for about 6 months. There is life after... |
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scared... I don't know what to do... Sep 23 2005, 05:30 PM
Kristinaa It can't be your fault. He's the one that ... Sep 23 2005, 05:35 PM scared... Thanks for replying...right now he's just real... Sep 23 2005, 05:39 PM scared... I kind of think that my ex won't have the guts... Sep 23 2005, 05:49 PM iNyCxShoRT Its not your fault. He's probably having emoti... Sep 23 2005, 05:53 PM andromeda_90 I never experienced that kind of thin but it sound... Sep 23 2005, 06:35 PM Azn Kid from NY LOL @ this girl being more worried if it will be h... Sep 23 2005, 06:52 PM SimplicityGirl Nope, it won't be your fault. You might feel l... Sep 23 2005, 06:58 PM
scared... ^I have told him, my friend advised to to be blunt... Sep 23 2005, 06:59 PM Kristinaa QUOTE(scared... @ Sep 23 2005, 6:59 PM)Excuse... Sep 23 2005, 10:05 PM |
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