how many of you never, had a boyfriend/girlfriend Options

[Anonymous82]

(how do you create a poll???) I was just wondering how many of you never had a boyfriend or girlfriend before.. I'm 19 and I never had girlfriend before and I don't think I'll be able to find one until I'm 22 or something =[

[*mipadi*]

Don't feel bad, man, at your age, it's probably best not to be tied down. I've dated some girls from time to time, but I've never really seen anyone seriously enough to consider one a "girlfriend". Mostly I guess that's because I was shy when I was in middle school, and in high school (and now) I didn't have the time or the inclination. I really prefer my independence, and now I find that my life is stressful enough without one other person or a relationship to worry about.

They key is to just not stress about it. Stress makes you worry, and worrying makes you overthink the situation, or try to create something that's not there. As cliche as it is, if you find a girl you like, just talk to her, but most importantly, be yourself. If things don't seem comfortable, walk away, meet someone else. Most importantly, remember that you won't find anyone if you're mopy or whiny or bitter about the situation. (Not saying you are, but just warning about becoming that way.) You'll only find someone if you're satisfied with yourself and your own life. Another key: know who you are. You can't expect people to get to know you if you don't even know yourself.